Thanks for the feedback. I just wanted some perspective. June 21, 2023 at 10:56PM

Explain how you are not gay. June 20, 2023 at 11:18PM

Do you have attractions? Daydreaming can be with or without attractions or desire. It kinda blurs when it's just thoughts rhanks to OCD and aegosexuality. Sounds like you're sex-repulsed at least for labeling it. June 19, 2023 at 11:30PM

I watched this video earlier which whilst isn't directly focused on aphobia, does go into some details on why/how aphobia can manifest. It's basically down to people linking sexuality as a uniquely human experience - so people who don't feel a sexual attraction may be viewed as robotic or alien. It basically others asexual people, as they don't participate in something that is seen as intrinsically human June 18, 2023 at 10:59PM

People usually ship the (presumably straight) male characters together because they aren’t putting actual gay non-PR relationships in it. Also if people are shipping m/m PR, then that means that there is a m/m PR relationship in it, which is what you want, right? June 17, 2023 at 11:14PM

LMFAO June 16, 2023 at 11:17PM

I am so sorry to hear that you feel broken. First of all, I think there is no "normal" amount of sex to want or need. That is always up to the individual couple to determine and to compromise. Secondly, does your partner know how you are feeling and what you are thinking about? Have they expressed to you that they are hurt? If so, what did they say what exactly hurts them? Thirdly, it is completely okay to not know what or who you are just yet. We have all been there and I am still at the point of questioning myself every once in a while. That is part of my life I would say. Just because your experiences dont align with "typical ace experiences" doesnt have to mean that you cannot be ace. Asexuality is a spectrum and there are so many different ace experiences. And saying that you dont like sex very often and find it boring or see it as a chore sometimes, is something that a lot of aces can relate to in one way or another. So even if in the end you find out that ...