what if your current partner came out as aromantic and didn't want to have a romantic relationship with you anymore but wants to be friends, would you feel comfortable making them your best friend and not having any romantic relationship with them I've just been called out. This was my exact experience with a past partner. It truly feels terrible that you can do nothing about it but move on June 14, 2023 at 11:07PM
Yes, if you are afab it is beneficial to prevent cervical cancer brought on by HPV infections. Also regardless of gender, if you possess such anything, not all sexual contact is voluntary. Best to be safe. June 13, 2023 at 11:24PM
I am autistic and have trauma around physical contact so I hate being touched. I have a list of people who I let touch me and that’s it. I used to be a really physically affectionate person but I can’t stand contact now so I’m just touch starved. But even when I wasn’t traumatized I still hated being touched without warning and I only let certain people. June 12, 2023 at 11:45PM
I (24F) matched with a guy (34-36M: don’t want to give out his exact age) (for the purpose of this post we’ll call him Chris) on Bumble on February 17th; remember the exact day because it was my friends birthday. The day we matched I was in NJ (I live on Long Island, Chris lives in one of the NYC boroughs). So I probably wouldn’t have ever matched with him if I wasn’t in NJ or NYC since we live 2 ish hours apart. We had really good conversation on Bumble, and the same day we matched he talked to me the whole 2 hour trip home from NJ. He even said how his birthday was the following week, and that “God sent this Long Island girl to him for his birthday.” After that conversation we continued texting and calling each other. We made plans to meet but he canceled 2 hours before because he had a tough day at work. We continued talking but didn’t make plans because he was moving apartments. I eventually let the conversation fizzle out because I felt that I was putting in too much effort. Even...