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/u/onlyalittleillegal on What would you choose in bed?

I can't have cake. Too sweet. Texturally displeasing. Yuck. August 01, 2022 at 01:33AM

/u/zoologygirl16 on am i mistaken with the definition? kinda confused now

This is...wrong. Ace people have nerve endings in their privates. They can experience pleasure as much as anyone else and get seratonine and dopamine from it. We can desire that experience. It does not mean we experience sexual attraction tho August 01, 2022 at 01:26AM

Unlucky in dates

Hi all. I'm 33 male living in UK. Originally not from this country. Moved together with my now ex. Broke up after 2 years, initiative was hers. Have been trying to get a date for 3 years with no luck. From time to time I give up then start over. I want to find a girl to have a family with. Pof, Tinder and literally tryed all other apps. No luck, not even a single proper conv. No dates as well. Thinking about giving up for good. Feels super depressing. P.S. I have and always had a job, don't smoke at all, almost don't drink alcohol. Submitted August 01, 2022 at 01:11AM Hi all. I'm 33 male living in UK. Originally not from this country. Moved together with my now ex. Broke up after 2 years, initiative was hers. Have been trying to get a date for 3 years with no luck. From time to time I give up then start over. I want to find a girl to have a family with. Pof, Tinder and literally tryed all other apps. No luck, not even a single proper conv. No dates as well.Thin...

/u/gatemansgc on The amount of straight-up aphobia and misunderstandings about asexuality in the comments is just really disheartening

Yeah what a roller-coaster August 01, 2022 at 12:32AM

Strange date experience the other night, would be interested in hearing other perspectives

Sorry this is long Went on a first date Thursday evening, we met up at a small art gallery then went out to dinner. At the restaurant, we happened to run into a couple of her friends. We ended up sitting and eating together and then went to a hookah lounge together (something I should point out: it was my date's idea to hang out with her friends for the rest of the evening) One of her friends was very into me, and this friend was charming and cuter than my date, but I didn't want to be "that guy" and didn't pay her any special attention. She did talk to me a lot and ask me questions (and offered to buy me a drink, though I didn't take her up on it), and I made pleasant conversation with her, but again, I didn't go out of my way to give her extra attention. This friend also invited me to an event happening the next night with all three of them (my date and the two friends). My date had already invited me to the event and I'd already thought about goi...

Is it recoverable?

I (M21) told (F21) how I felt to early and spooked her. For background we only been talking for about 2 weeks and we are polar opposites. I’m more extroverted and wears my heart on my sleeves while she’s more introverted and closed off. I take things at a fast pace while she takes things at a slower pace. I told her yesterday that I like her and wanted to move faster and this scared her. She wanted to talk for six months before dating and she’s not used to such a fast pace and the pace we already been going is to fast for her. She never had a Boyfriend or even kissed a guy. We went on a “date” but she didn’t want to count it as date and more of a hangout. But we were doing date things like hugging on each other and holding hands. She said she felt like the pace that she wants doesn’t line up with what I want or need. I’m down to slow down because I really like her.(I get attached fast) I had a girlfriends in the past my longest being two years. I came up with a deal where basicall...

/u/Eithang16 on Same honestly

Nah Fr same July 30, 2022 at 11:21PM