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Is it okay to ask a friend I like on a date through message, if it's the ONLY option I have?

I've finally gotten the motivation/courage to ask my friend out on a date, but unfortunately I don't have many options. We don't see each other during the week, we both work and only text one another afterwards. On the weekends though, we at times hang out and go out to the movies, clubs or out to eat somewhere. I was thinking of texting her to ask her out on a date this weekend, but I'm not sure if that's the appropriate way to do this. I haven't asked anyone out on a date, so I'm not sure. Also, she doesn't have my number so calling her isn't an option. None of my friends have my number, they all keep contact through social media. So calling her is definitely out of the picture here. I don't have many options here, so personally I think I'm gonna go through with texting her. But before I do anything, I have to ask: is this okay? Like I said, I don't have other options due to our busy schedule. I don’t have a chance to tell her in pe...

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Brownies are really good! Tbh I love any food, but brownies takes the cake! (Hehe pun intended) July 20, 2022 at 12:17AM

Alpha Female - how to date?!

OK so... I've been struggling to find a bf cuz I'm a so-called alpha female. I'm pretty (there are tons of guys telling me this on the street, I had stalkers my entire life) I'm rich (my parents are $$$$... I get what I want.) I'm smart (my IQ exceeds 130...) I'm a professional (can't disclose my occupation online but... I hold a professional license) ​ I know I'm popular cuz everywhere I go, guys approach me even when I'm with other guys I've dated hundreds of men... But I just can't seem to find the right one without discounting myself... I want a meaningful relationship!! What/How can I have it?! Please no bs... Only want to hear from ppl who've been through this kinda lifestyle!! pls!! Submitted July 20, 2022 at 12:13AM OK so... I've been struggling to find a bf cuz I'm a so-called alpha female.I'm pretty (there are tons of guys telling me this on the street, I had stalkers my entire life)I'm rich (my ...

How badly did I muck this up post-first date?

I (25M) asked a former coworker (22F) out to lunch this past Saturday. She said yes and seemed pretty enthusiastic about it. We messaged through Instagram to set up a time and place, and the messages were a little spaced out the week leading up to it - anywhere from 6 hours apart to an entire day later - but we got things figured out and met up just fine. It seemed to go well, time was a little limited (I had to work that evening and she had plans with a friend anyway) but we had a nice hour long conversation over lunch and got to know each other better. We agreed it'd be great to go out again sometime, with her suggesting "something fun" in the college town not far from us. Sunday evening I sent a follow-up message saying thanks for lunch and reiterating interest in meeting again, and gave her my number - my dumbass didn't think to exchange numbers at lunch, which might be the first mistake. The message went unread all day Monday but I figured she's busy at wor...

/u/belltyj on I posted when I got this skirt a few days ago and you guys said it needed some more purple so I did the thing 🥰🖤🤍💜

She 😉 July 19, 2022 at 11:14PM

/u/Ditmecongsan-77 on I posted when I got this skirt a few days ago and you guys said it needed some more purple so I did the thing 🥰🖤🤍💜

Imagine some guys would think he is sexy. 🤣🤣🥲🥲🥲 July 19, 2022 at 11:12PM

Really upset but confused

The guy I’m dating and I were talking about something important and he was trying to warn me about the dangerous people I used to be associated with, and if I stuck Around they would’ve hurt me. he was explaining how he knows from his own personal traumatic childhood. I was getting frustrated about it so I said I didn’t want to hear it anymore, and I didn’t mean about his life but about my wrong judgment which was my mistake, then he got really mad because he felt like I wasn’t listening and said before he hung up that he hopes they r*pe me. For some reason this really upset me and I’m almost hysterically crying and couldn’t stop for awhile. We have spoken since and he sincerely apologized. I know he didn’t mean it but idk why thinking about him saying that hurt me so much. Like if someone else said that I’d be like screw them. Or maybe be upset by it but I don’t understand my hysterical crying. I’m not sure if my reaction is an overreaction and if it is, why? I also am not sure if th...