I (26M) have had a crush on my coworker(25F) for months. She’s quiet and a bit mysterious and loner. I finally asked her out and ended up spending the night with her. Best I’ve ever had by far. I’m still having flashbacks of it all. She also told me all about her life. She told me about how she cheated on her ex and fought with her siblings and won’t call her dad and how her college friends hate her and how she does risky things for fun. Way too many red flags but she was horrifyingly honest about it and surprisingly, I don’t feel repulsed or like running away. I’m confused as my friends say she sounds like bad news but I’m attracted to her even more after last night. Should I ask her on another date or act like it never happened when I see her at work tomorrow? Submitted May 23, 2022 at 01:14AM I (26M) have had a crush on my coworker(25F) for months. She’s quiet and a bit mysterious and loner. I finally asked her out and ended up spending the night with her. Best I’ve ever had ...

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Oh, I meant like actual donuts - I have a bad sweet tooth and a weakness for desserts! ☺️ When it comes to sex though I don’t find any of it appetizing or feel any urges. May 23, 2022 at 12:11AM

I was talking to this guy for around 2 months and we hit it off great. At first, he wanted a relationship with me but then suddenly changed his mind and only wanted friends with benefits which I denied since I feel am too inexperienced. He was the best connection I ever had with someone, and it just sucks since all his friends said he really liked me so I just feel super disappointed. It's been over a month since we stopped talking, and I still can't stop thinking about him which is dumb since we never even dated. How do I get over him? Submitted May 23, 2022 at 12:14AM I was talking to this guy for around 2 months and we hit it off great. At first, he wanted a relationship with me but then suddenly changed his mind and only wanted friends with benefits which I denied since I feel am too inexperienced. He was the best connection I ever had with someone, and it just sucks since all his friends said he really liked me so I just feel super disappointed. It's been over a...

Growing up, everyone around me was having their first kisses, dates, relationships and so on... I probably noticed in middle school that this was more apparent. I was never one of these people, I was petrified of everything to do with dating and it took me until I was 15 to start. However, this was an online "relationship" where I had met this 16 year old on kik and we dated for almost a year. It got to the extent that in 2016 I flew to Vegas with my mother, my best friend, and her mother to go meet him. Few months later that had ended. I believe it was about March when I had met someone from another school on tinder and we began dating. He always tried to initiate sexual contact and asked for bjs and so on, yet i was petrified and never did. In April 2016, my brother committed suicide and shortly after the relationship with the guy ended because we didn't see each other enough. A year and a half go by and its senior year. For some reason "the popular guy" was...

The standart for women is an obedient little creature that guards her virginity to give it to her husband and the standart for men is a "stud" who is so attractive that he can switch women like gloves and not run out. Both equally disgusting. May 22, 2022 at 11:23PM

Im 19m and There’s a girl i met at work not long ago and we had a few interactions but not many and I felt myself having a huge crush on her. Nothing really ever came of it though and I didn’t really know her that well but there was something about her which I just adored. She left my place of work not long ago and I never really had the chance to get close with her. She is still in contact with a lot of my work colleagues so I don’t know if our paths will ever cross again. But she is literally all I have thought about for about a month or so. I just keep thinking about her and it’s the what if that kills me. I sometimes just say her name randomly and i often dream about her. It’s gotten to the point where I feel genuine anger over this and I have extreme intrusive thoughts about it like her going off with some other person I could get in contact but if I do she’ll know that I’m interested and it will kill me right away because I can’t come off too over persistent. I don’t even really...