Personally I'm only fully comfortable with cuddling my boyfriend, and hugging family/my boyfriend. Though if a friend is in need of comfort, I'm willing/able to put that discomfort to the side to hug them to try and help them feel better. I don't know how that compares to allos, since I know there are allos who are very touchy/huggy and that there are allos who aren't. May 02, 2022 at 12:22AM