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/u/tinkdistroo on Came out to my best friend, how great TW: aphobia

I've never met someone who specifically does not like series. May I ask what you don't like about them, if there's a specific reason? March 04, 2022 at 12:08AM

Obesity

Long story short I'm young and looking for advices! I'm very interested in a colleague of mine who is pretty much obese.. I know what she looks like and it doesn't really bother me.. Stuff I hear around me regarding this topic is making me reconsider my feelings. I'm a bit reluctant to trust my own feelings. Is obesity really such a big issue in dating? For context : she is very much interested as well and I figured out that she had bariatric surgery about less than 6 month ago. Yet majority of people around me are still telling me that I will regret getting into this... I'd love to read some opinions regarding this as I still don't have a lot of experiences Submitted March 04, 2022 at 12:08AM Long story short I'm young and looking for advices!I'm very interested in a colleague of mine who is pretty much obese.. I know what she looks like and it doesn't really bother me..Stuff I hear around me regarding this topic is making me reconsider m...

How to ask someone out when it is difficult to find opportunities?

Just as the title says! I (M) shared a class with this person (F) a month or so ago so we are not total strangers but by no means friends either. I don't take that class anymore however and now only see them around campus with friends and whatnot. I just find it difficult to approach them at all (both due to situations and also because I'm a complete coward with all this) and was wondering if anyone had any ideas or little inputs to this situation? I never expect a magic solution but things such as nuggets of advice and personal experiences are always great. Thank you! Submitted March 04, 2022 at 12:13AM Just as the title says! I (M) shared a class with this person (F) a month or so ago so we are not total strangers but by no means friends either. I don't take that class anymore however and now only see them around campus with friends and whatnot. I just find it difficult to approach them at all (both due to situations and also because I'm a complete coward with ...

/u/LolHi113 on any alloromantic asexuals?

Romantic ace here. Omni lol March 03, 2022 at 11:30PM

/u/DemiSquirrel on I hate it when people sexualise me

You have every right to dress however you like without being bombarded with comments of any kind it's your body your choice however because people are gonna comment regardless maybe a way to deal with it is to listen to music through headphones so you can pretend not to hear them March 03, 2022 at 11:29PM

/u/DarthInvictus on I hate it when people sexualise me

Nothing says "I'm confident" and "Don't sexualize me" like wearing full plate armor in public lol. Srsly though, I'm sorry allos (esp men) can be so gross and lack boundaries. That is something I am very grateful that, as an ace guy, I don't have to deal with constantly. I hope at least this place can be a safe space from all that. March 03, 2022 at 11:28PM

What to do

So short backstory, I've (23F) been recently talking to a little group of guys(all 22 to 24M) who've been friends with eachother for some years. They're all cool and I vibe with em pretty good as "just friends". But I started talking to one of them more seriously and we've also sexted etc. This has been going for over a month and I felt like we really liked eachother untill he dropped the fact that he's not over his ex crush of 2 years ago who he described as his "weakness". Kinda put me off but I still really like him alot, but I also kinda wanna protect myself and not be the "rebound" so I cut off contact with him as much as possible. We text a few times every few days now instead of the daily talks. Anyways I noticed his other friend is starting to get a crush on me, he's a really sweet guy with alot of patience and he told me he wants to make me feel special. He doesn't know about me and the first guy so I'm kinda hes...