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/u/Creative-Solution on Are you guys content with being asexual?

I may not relate, but wow that accidental pouring out of your heart to a stranger is such a mood😂 Honestly that sounds so bothersome! The coin edge is the perfect metaphor lol. Good luck out there :D December 04, 2021 at 12:09AM

/u/potathoe17 on The logo of this sub looks like a pair of boobs

i second that December 03, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/Minipeachiegirl on I did it myself! What do you think?

It looks great! December 03, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/SaltEfan on I'm not sure what I am anymore

The whole “you’ll find the one” stuff is just something people say because they either don’t understand asexuality or they don’t understand what you’re experiencing (nobody but you can truly do). The idea of a core family is so ingrained into society that people kinda just set this as a goal for themselves and others without much critical thought to it. If that’s what you want, then great. If not, that’s also perfectly fine. Sexuality and romantic attraction is complicated, and it’s perfectly okay to be questioning your own experiences and feelings. (I’d argue that it’s healthy in many cases) As for whether or not you’re doing this for attention, let me ask you this. How often do you talk about this, and how much do you emphasize this aspect about yourself in social situations or social media? December 03, 2021 at 11:34PM

Introducing (MMF) threesome into a relationship

I have been with my soon to be wife for 5 years now. We have discussed 3 somes in the past. She lacks confidences. She is a smoke show but doesn’t believe she is. Any luck in using 2 males in a threesome to introduce her to multiple partners? Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:37AM I have been with my soon to be wife for 5 years now. We have discussed 3 somes in the past. She lacks confidences. She is a smoke show but doesn’t believe she is. Any luck in using 2 males in a threesome to introduce her to multiple partners?

Coping with Los Angeles, California consent laws and abstinence

California’s age of consent is 18 years old with no close in age exemptions. I just turned 18, and am resident of Los Angeles. Our consent laws are brutally inflexible in this state. My girlfriend, a minor under the age of consent, and I, find ourselves really connected. I constantly hear about my friends at school having sex regularly despite the risk of the legal consequences. Even worse, California’s laws are setup in a way that often places forgiveness if both partners are minors but can inflict severe charges if one is an adult. I really like my girlfriend and am more than willing to wait things out until it is legal. However, it is very overwhelming and frustrating to feel this way with my hormones raging, my friends engaging in intercourse in a regular basis, and the realization the laws are much more relaxed in other states. Coping with unwanted abstinence is really tough. Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:40AM California’s age of consent is 18 years old with no close ...

I’ve (20F) been getting more attention lately

So I’ve (20F) always been out of shape. Not ugly, but there were some things I wanted to improve on. I finally stayed consistent in the gym, followed a specific diet plan for my goals, took better care of my skin, and most importantly my head space feels peaceful asf Overall, I feel confident and not to toot my horn, I think I look good? Lol, my friends have been telling me that I’m starting to “glow up” and with this confidence, I’ve been going out more and posting myself more (not explicit in the public, just regular full body pics). On socials and in public, I’ve noticed a way more increased wave of attention from guys and I lowkey love it haha. It feels fun to reel in a guy that I find cute, to feel confident in myself again. I feel like I got my sex appeal back and people are feeling it too. I love it here lol. I love posting myself in cute outfits and just being myself! Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:52AM So I’ve (20F) always been out of shape. Not ugly, but there wer...