So me and this girl were seeing each other for a couple weeks it fizzled out and last time we talked she didn’t respond to a text most tell me I shouldn’t text at all but I think it would be alright at the very least she would respond. I was thinking just say “hey, been thinking about you recently wanted to see how your doin” something along those lines Submitted December 03, 2021 at 01:06AM So me and this girl were seeing each other for a couple weeks it fizzled out and last time we talked she didn’t respond to a text most tell me I shouldn’t text at all but I think it would be alright at the very least she would respond. I was thinking just say “hey, been thinking about you recently wanted to see how your doin” something along those lines

I try to give my gf her own time to do what et she pleases as sometimes it’s nice to do your own thing and enjoy her time to herself, so on Sunday I asked her to have a day to herself on a day normally we see each other , she said no it’s ok the day after will be my time , the day arrives and she never brought up hanging out or anything and eventually called me saying she’s just going to do her own thing. Which is fine I just wish communication was there so I could plan my day instead of scrapping it thinking we would chill. Just seems like no respect is given for my time? During the convo she said well u offered and I took it, but she said no originally , and when I asked for just more clear communication she called me controlling, am I doing something wrong here? Submitted December 03, 2021 at 01:15AM I try to give my gf her own time to do what et she pleases as sometimes it’s nice to do your own thing and enjoy her time to herself, so on Sunday I asked her to have a day to he...

“and want to have sex in the future. I mean, idk what the attraction part feels like to you, but you can totally be ace and want to have sex at some point. “Problem is that I find sex in real life to be gross. I m@sturbate and have sex in my dreams and always enjoy it but find sex with someone else (boy or girl) gross. What is wrong with me? sounds like the stuff we talk about over on r/aegosexuals maybe you’re gray ace, maybe you’re demisexual, maybe your aegosexual or a combo, or maybe what you ID’d as attraction wasn’t really sexual attraction in the strong sense. But it’s all fine. Sometimes maybe feeling some sexual attraction doesn’t eject you from the ace umbrella. December 02, 2021 at 11:20PM

Well, if you’re asexual, you can’t be biromantic, clearly. It’s so obvious! /s December 02, 2021 at 11:13PM

The same health benefits are triggered by cardio and exercise. No sex needed. December 02, 2021 at 11:12PM

I-- they could date ANOTHER homoromantic asexual. This post isn't even about dating allos as an ace, it's about gatekeeping a word. If you're going to start reaching to things this post isn't even about to pretend you not having basic comprehension skills is a community problem then I'm done. My allo, straight partner has had no problem being with me for the past 5 years or understanding that I'm ace, but also romantically attracted to both men and women. The "real world" isn't as shallow as you seem to think it is, and it's one we ALL live in. December 02, 2021 at 11:10PM

If really does give off those vibes December 02, 2021 at 11:10PM