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/u/Ghostkid__ on Sex-having aces, I see you and you are a valid part of our community

I'm a girl. Literally anything going up in me seems like it hurts. Including tampons (which is why I use pads instead) November 15, 2021 at 12:50AM

/u/throwaceornotaceblob on you’re not gonna relate to every single post on this sub.

Oh wow, someone adexromantic is actually real, thank you for validating this! November 15, 2021 at 12:47AM

/u/Jon_jon13 on Sex repulsed aces, what's something GOOD about your asexuality?

I wanna see some too! November 15, 2021 at 12:45AM

/u/gprime312 on Sex-having aces, I see you and you are a valid part of our community

I understand "It looks gross" as a reason to avoid sex but "It looks like it hurts" doesn't make sense. November 15, 2021 at 12:44AM

Made girlfriend cum but feel like a disappointment

(Virgin) I was with my girlfriend and made her cum twice with my hands and again with oral but I couldn't get hard. She gave me a gentle handjob and it had a semi but I couldn't get fully hard for sex on our first night. She didn't shame me or anything, she just said I love you and its fine. That we will have sex when it's ready. I can make her cum and squirt like five times in a night before but I just can't be sex with her. I love her and am attracted to her but don't know how to proceed with this! I ordered viagra on prescription but was rejected due to stuff I misclicked. I've stopped masturbating for five days ago to see if It helps and I'm not anxious with her that much. Neither of us is shy during sex with each other. I came twice today because I needed some relief because she gave me a 30 minute handjob and it didn't do much for me. I'm M20 and no I don't have preexisting conditions but I've gone soft by myself before but I c...

how to help my boyfriend gain confidence/top?

hey reddit, going to keep this one very short and sweet. i’ll have leave a lot of things out, but suffice to say i love my boyfriend very, very much — the only issues are in the bedroom. my boyfriend has a lot of difficulty initiating sex. he will often start touching me, like running his hands over my legs and torso, but it never progresses past there. even if i position myself so his hand is between my legs, even if i’m receptive and arch my body towards him — he’ll keep touching for a few minutes but nothing ever happens after that. it’s begun to feel like if i want sex to happen i have to be the one to get on top/suck his dick/take all the control basically. if i don’t, nothing happens. so many nights have passed where we just kiss and touch over the clothes until i literally get so bored i’m turned off, and frustrated. to be clear, the first months of our relationship i really put in effort to initiate and get sex started. i would almost always go down to get him hard and then ...

Can anyone tell me how to actually tell if I’m bisexual or straight?

Hi guys, I’m f(25) engaged to a very nice man. I always thought that I am straight and never even considered to think I may be into women too. My fiancé and I got together 7 years ago, he was my first so I didn’t get to explore much but before him I never really felt any attraction towards anyone. But these last years I started noticing and feeling different when I saw other guys half naked, it’s not that I wanted them because I love my fiancé but it felt different. But the main issue is that I’m starting to feel like that when I look at other women too. When I watch porn I’d watch mostly lesbian porn, but after I finish I get nothing from it. Like right now I can imagine being intimate to some point with a woman but there are times where it disgusts me. It’s making my head hurt because even though I’m in a happy relationship I’d still want to know what my sexuality is. Submitted November 15, 2021 at 12:55AM Hi guys, I’m f(25) engaged to a very nice man. I always thought that I ...