hey reddit, going to keep this one very short and sweet. i’ll have leave a lot of things out, but suffice to say i love my boyfriend very, very much — the only issues are in the bedroom. my boyfriend has a lot of difficulty initiating sex. he will often start touching me, like running his hands over my legs and torso, but it never progresses past there. even if i position myself so his hand is between my legs, even if i’m receptive and arch my body towards him — he’ll keep touching for a few minutes but nothing ever happens after that. it’s begun to feel like if i want sex to happen i have to be the one to get on top/suck his dick/take all the control basically. if i don’t, nothing happens. so many nights have passed where we just kiss and touch over the clothes until i literally get so bored i’m turned off, and frustrated. to be clear, the first months of our relationship i really put in effort to initiate and get sex started. i would almost always go down to get him hard and then ...