Yeah, it does feel icky. I found out years afterwards that people in high school were sexualising me a lot because of my body and just felt disgusting. Best friend had to comfort me and I’ve never felt comfortable with classmates again (well I never was but this increased it). So yeah I totally get you it’s valid to feel icky about that. August 28, 2021 at 12:02AM

The same for me, actually. I've always dreamt of a house together with someone, so we both get lots of personal space. sigh August 28, 2021 at 12:02AM

I will take that a step further and say my ultimate would be two small homes or personal spaces connected by a kitchen or a hangout room. I get my own space/room/bathroom/hangout or hobby spot and they get the same. They would have to be okay if I never let them into my personal space and vice versa for me. August 28, 2021 at 12:00AM

I'm not sure what "normal" is, but you're not the only one that experiences this August 27, 2021 at 11:59PM

Okay but sleeping together as in sharing a bed with your partner or a close friend and snuggling instead of having sex is such a good idea. Cause then when people ask ‘WhY hAvEn’T yOu GoT a BoYfRiEnD yEt?’ or the equivalent depending on the attitude this heteronormative society has towards your gender, you can talk about it and they won’t know you were ‘just’ snuggling. August 27, 2021 at 11:58PM

I feel the opposite. As long as they don’t /tell me/ I’m in their fantasies, I don’t really care. If someone tells me “oh hey I masturbate(d) to you,” then that’s fucked up and I will be extremely uncomfortable around that person. August 27, 2021 at 11:56PM

To be honest i rather my hooker speak french and only french! That would be hularious 🤣🤣🤣 Like imagine they are trying to dirty talk and you don't undertand a thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Edit: or the friend when they get a hooker trying to talk to them anf not being able to understand anything. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thats hularious August 27, 2021 at 11:52PM