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/u/Gladiator_Fembot on What can I do to make physical intimacy better/more tolerable for my Ace girlfriend?

Make sure to check in on her, thoroughly watch her body language. And let her have top when you're about to go all the way. Losing your virginity as a woman sucks and gets a bit painful. So if she's on top going at her own pace it shouldn't be as bad. August 04, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/thebookwzbetter on Ace Ring

Since it’s not a well known thing to people outside the LGBT community, you’ll naturally see people with black rings who just think it’s cool and don’t know what it means to us. Especially as a wedding band, where they’re already looking for something plain but nice. That’s why the ace ring is specifically the right middle finger, because if you don’t know the ace meaning it’s far less likely to be worn coincidentally. Of course, you can adjust the ‘rules’ for yourself because you’ll know what it means to you. August 04, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/twentytown on Romantic aces: How often do you get crushes on people?

Not a lot tbh. I can count 3 people that I had a serious crush on and that only started when I was 14 then 16 then 18. I don't have a crush rn but I think for me it takes a while to really like a person. August 04, 2021 at 11:52PM

/u/Left_Town_5737 on Coming out as an ace is hard - so I don't

this is really dumb because the same people who say this once you reach that age they go "oh you're too old, you're falling out of it" SO WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE, 5 MINUTES AFTER BECOMING 25 AND THEN NEVER AGAIN??? August 04, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/wonsis on Asexual polyamory sounds fantastic.

I once pitched this to my friend group, when we were in high school. One of them said “that way we can have all the sex we can in our own rooms” Didn’t like the idea as much anymore. August 04, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/stormaster on Asexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone has no attraction to anyone, Asexuality is NOT sexual attraction to food

Yeah, that's what I was referring to, probably should've put that in the post. August 04, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/AgitatedMortgage6 on We need gastrointestinal problem representation in the ace community

Yeah hopefully. Because the only real problem I had was really terrible gas. Except I occasionally had really small stools. I don’t have the other symptoms of IBS. August 04, 2021 at 11:50PM