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/u/Cyan_Rose_42 on I'm a little worried..?

I’m glad you’re feeling more confident! Embrace who you are, self love comes first! 💜 April 03, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/craigularperson on Can an asexual to also identify as queer?

I can only speak for myself, but I would rather say that I am able to have sex with someone, but there is no way for me to be sexually attracted to them. And I view sex as something more than it being physical, and I only experience the physical, which isn't that interesting either. For me having sex with a woman or a man is equally pleasant/unpleasant. I can't know what other people experience and feels, but I would say that a hetero man might not like the idea of having sex with a man, and this is just how I feel about everybody. I actually think that sexual orientation goes beyond preference. You can have preferences within your orientation, but the orientation itself is not a preference. If you hypothetical are homosexual and only among women, you wouldn't suddenly become straight, because your pool of possible sexual candidates got changed. I would also rather say that attraction is either romantic or sexual. You might experience a romantic attraction toward women ...

/u/GaraBlacktail on being asexual just means that you lack sexual attraction to others, NOT your sex drive

What helped me was being open online. April 02, 2021 at 11:58PM

/u/Shakespeare-Bot on being asexual just means that you lack sexual attraction to others, NOT your sex drive

true,, altho f'r me i dont has't a amorous rite drive (anymore) amd i receiveth so invalidat'd f'r t like,,,,,,,, wherefore I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words. Commands: !ShakespeareInsult , !fordo , !optout April 02, 2021 at 11:58PM

/u/Rathama on being asexual just means that you lack sexual attraction to others, NOT your sex drive

Well glad you did. Idk if I ever will or even if I want to April 02, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/sakuracalico on being asexual just means that you lack sexual attraction to others, NOT your sex drive

true,, altho for me i dont have a sex drive (anymore) amd i get so invalidated for it like,,,,,,,, why April 02, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/GaraBlacktail on being asexual just means that you lack sexual attraction to others, NOT your sex drive

Meh, I've already kinda came to terms with it. April 02, 2021 at 11:57PM