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/u/AdministrativeAd2905 on I'm so confused

Thank you so much I really appreciate it March 11, 2021 at 11:59PM

/u/Aquela_Entidade on Hello Ace community! I would like your opinion on this post. As an Asexual person, I'm not sexually attracted towards anyone. Male, female or trans. But I'm being painted as a transphobe for saying so. Am I really transphobic for not being attracted to transsexuals as an Asexual person?

No you aren't, because you don't diferentiate trans and cis woman treating them with diferent eyes. Second, the "super" identity was born because of a stawman argument. They say that the LGBTQA+ comunity says "if you are not atracted to trans woman or trans man, you are not (insert allosexual orientation here)", and this is a lie, what the LGBTQA+ comunity says "if you are (insert allosexual orientation here) being atracted to a trans(gender that you are atracted to) does not make you less(the same allosexual atraction)" Oh, now i noticed that you said "male, female OR trans", and that's why some people might be calling you transphobic, because you are refering to trans people, in this sentence, like they are something diferent from man and woman. It's not wrong being or not atracted to a transgender, it's transphobic when you are not atracted BECAUSE they are trans. March 11, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/TheSeaOfTime on Am I still ace if I have a fetish that gives me erections

I’m an ace with a fetish too. Don’t worry, you belong March 11, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/anxiouscakedragon on Accidentally flirty?

I haven't ever flirted with anyone, so I don't know how. If I did it would be uncomfortable and cringy, probably. March 11, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Throwawace5 on Am I still ace if I have a fetish that gives me erections

I have gotten erections a few times when seeing some of the chubbier girls around my school but I never feel anything sexual nor have i ever once dreamt of sex or wanted to with any of them. They could just give me an erection due to my fetish March 11, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/NoHeresyHere on "oh you're ace? You didn't look like you were boring"

Imagine looking at all the art, beauty and genius of what mankind is capable of creating, all the variety of music, writing, painting, all the capacity for physical skills and prowess, the sheer bottomless depths of self-expression a human is capable of producing...and saying someone is boring because they don't partake in one very specific activity. Think about it. Think about what a disservice it is to everything humans can say and do that someone could consider you boring because you don't have sex. As if all the limitless variety of human creativity and expression are just...totally irrelevant. As if all the ways humans can find and make meaning of their lives and the world around them amount to nothing. As if, out of everything you can say and do in this world, your passion and love for life are dependent purely on one activity. Someone who doesn't have sex isn't boring, just the same as someone who has sex isn't necessarily interesting. There's so muc...

/u/PowerStorm55 on All or Nothing

The artist and op had nothing to do with it though. March 11, 2021 at 11:53PM