For me it is entirely about wanting the action of sex my sexual partner is just a toy essentially (wow that sound really bad) so if they do something something that I like then I may want them to do it again but in the same way that I would prefer one sex toy to another. I am aromantic as well so I don't feel any desire bond with sexual partners no matter how many times I have sex with them. December 10, 2020 at 12:05AM

I would definitely introduce her to the idea. Luckily I learned about asexuality really young, which I think made my experience so much easier. (Super open about it and I’ve never felt ashamed or anything, it made it seem a lot more normal than what most peoples experiences sound like.) The fact that you care so much is super important and you seem like a really awesome partner, so good job! :) December 10, 2020 at 12:05AM

Not all needs are about life and death. While I don't have sexual or romantic relationships, I would collapse without my family relationships. So I just try to imagine someone telling me it's ridiculous to need your family, and understand their sexual and romantic needs. December 10, 2020 at 12:04AM

Say it lowder for the bi-genders in the back! December 10, 2020 at 12:01AM

I looked at the model on Wikipedia and sex isn’t on there. Just partner acquisition. December 09, 2020 at 11:59PM

I would probably do the same until it becomes a "who can scream the loudest" December 09, 2020 at 11:59PM

Who’s gonna die without sex? December 09, 2020 at 11:59PM