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/u/dareka_san on What's the worst thing about being asexual?

Very few people, even generally woke people really understand it so I have only told close friends. But the absolute worst part of asexuality is how you almost never meet another ace naturally. Initially figuring this stuff out completely isolated sucks. Especially before I was aware of the relatively small online communities. July 05, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/SoloAjax on What's the worst thing about being asexual?

Dating is pretty much impossible and I pretty much feel isolated from my friends in certain conversations. July 04, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/StarNight404 on What's your view on love in asexuality? I've written so many love poems, and thought so much about falling in love, but that was like butterflies and a blank space in my life. Maybe I was trying to fill a gap, but it still means something to me. Should my body agree with my heart?

I think you've got it wrong. Asexuality meansthe lack of sexual atraction. You see people, you can think they're attractive, you can get to love someone even, but you won't feel the urge to have sex with them. Aromantics are the ones that do not feel like they need romantic relationships, so love in asexuality is not something crazy. If you're aro/ace, you probably wouldn't think so much about falling in love with people and having a relationship, but being asexual doesn't mean you can't love, it has nothing to do with it. Hope that was helpful ^ July 04, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/yarharhayhay on Do people use AVEN or primarily other sites

Do you mind telling me where those communities are? I'm trying to make an ace master sheet with pretty much all information and put downs to "you just haven't met the right one yet" type arguements July 04, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/calamityecho on After my school gave us a queer pride bracelet which says “100% human“, I had decided to make some regular acelets. They are not fantastic, but I think I will make more. I also try to wear them more often

Frick yeah loom bands! Those are super cute! July 04, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/AwayPersonDude on Any one AroAce, but feel aesthetic and other minor attractions?

Ok? I was just clarifying. July 04, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/DEMON212 on Any one AroAce, but feel aesthetic and other minor attractions?

I mean just because you'd never heard it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I lived for 32 years not knowing I was AroAce but oh boy did I feel I was different to literally everyone else. July 04, 2020 at 11:53PM