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Never been in a serious relationship before and the thought of being in one makes me nervous.

I’m a [20M]. I dated this girl when I was in 5th grade for 3 years but as an adult, I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I’ve definitely been interested in people and went on dates but never moved past a couple dates. I drag my feet on actively pursuing a relationship because I’m a little scared that I’ll invest a lot of my time into someone and it doesn’t work out. The other part of me knows that even if a relationship doesn’t work out, you still learn things about yourself In the process, but knowing that, I still drag my feet getting into a relationship. Does anyone else go through this? Submitted June 04, 2020 at 12:15AM I’m a [20M]. I dated this girl when I was in 5th grade for 3 years but as an adult, I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I’ve definitely been interested in people and went on dates but never moved past a couple dates. I drag my feet on actively pursuing a relationship because I’m a little scared that I’ll invest a lot of my time into someone and ...

/u/frostybirdgoddess on Aces, what is it about sex that you don't like/don't have any interest in it?

It’s just so gross! All the... excess things that come out of both partners during and after is just soo disgusting. How do you clean everything (sheets and body) thoroughly enough where you’re comfortable sleeping/walking/BEING where you had sex?? Not to mention when a couple tries to get pregnant, they have sex when one of the partners is on their period!! It’s nasty up there already and now you’re putting your weird little meatstick up like bruh how is that NOT gross af?? P.s. I’m comfortable with sex related words but in an asexuality chat it just feels wrong June 04, 2020 at 12:06AM

/u/faeMagix on I already posted this to aaaaaace but I hope you guys like it too!

Thank you guys so much for the upvotes! I really appreciate it! June 04, 2020 at 12:04AM

/u/gatuni1570 on Aces, what is it about sex that you don't like/don't have any interest in it?

I ain't gonna lie, I'm a virgin who's 20, who identifies as AroAce, who has no interest in sex and who's also disabled. Trust me, when the ADHD isn't interested in something, it isn't going to "try it out" for fun. It would rather be doing other things like playing with technology June 04, 2020 at 12:04AM

/u/HappyAndProud on Aces, what is it about sex that you don't like/don't have any interest in it?

Like, everything? Not gonna lie, I have never done the deed. When I don't have any interest in it, I just don't see why I would do it. From what I get, allos have like this inner "push" that is just not present in me. June 04, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/tall-hobbit- on Aces, what is it about sex that you don't like/don't have any interest in it?

Me being involved June 03, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/princess_volupine on Came out as asexual earlier this year and I’m excited for my first pride month! Tried some ace flag eyeshadow!

Very cute!! 💜💜 which palette/shades did you use ? June 03, 2020 at 11:45PM