So I am 25 and a transgender woman (I'm fairly passable when i try and I'm interested in women if that's relevant). I have been on and off dating sites and general attempts at dating for the past 5 years (mostly on apps though). In that time i have had 5 'dates'. 4 stood me up and the one that didn't thought we were meeting as friends. I get the transgender thing is off putting to people and i'm cool with that, i'm different i get that. I am upfront with people about it and i am open about it. If people aren't okay with it (assuming they even reply after i mention it) i don't press things and leave them be and yet I only ever seem to get stood up. Am i just socially inept? Are they panicking and agreeing not knowing what to say? Is this just what dating is like for most people? I'm quite willing to accept this is either due to me being an idiot or this is just what online dating is like but if there is anything i'm missing i'd be s...

I don't understand how people think using one label is the same as being "locked in". We didn't just give up and legally marry the darkness May 23, 2020 at 12:02AM

Looks great!! I got my (replacement) ace ring in the mail yesterday. <3 May 23, 2020 at 12:01AM

You can never have too many dice. May 23, 2020 at 12:00AM

people base relationships off of sexual attraction and compatibility, and forget that as we age that often changes. ...it doesn't. That's kinda why that sub exists. For allo people, sex is a key part of creating and maintaining intimacy in a relationship, and they continue to do so well into their 80s and beyond. May 22, 2020 at 11:58PM

Te jurooooo, a mí me decían las mismas pelotudeces. Sabía que había algo que no encajaba, entonces me puse a buscar en internet. Luego de un rato encontré la página de AVEN y me cayó. Es una pena que no haya tanto conocimiento de ésto en la comunidad hispano-hablante, che. ¡Bienvenuda y saludos desde Argentina! P.D.: Te olvidaste de poner un "flair", recomiendo usar el indicado May 22, 2020 at 11:54PM

don't listen to those stupid sex obsessed humans, garlic bread is the superior method of happiness. May 22, 2020 at 11:47PM