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/u/kib_b on asexual and non-asexual, struggling in a relationship of 6 years

So it's certainly possible and there are successful relationships between those who do and don't identify as asexual. Preemptively ending things because you think that he could feel a certain way sounds like a poor idea. If he made it clear he only wants to be with someone who will satisfy his sex drive then sure, sounds like a reason to break up. It's important to understand each other's wants and needs so you guys should talk about it. Some people figure an open relationship works for them and some people find their partner is perfectly ok with infrequent to no sex. I don't think you're being selfish and if you are insecure about it, tell him. You may feel silly and need him to tell you he doesn't care about it once every so often but it is better than letting insecurities grow and messing up the relationship May 22, 2020 at 12:02AM

Cause for worry?

So I 18M don't get morning erections or random erections throughout the day. Haven't got them in a few years. My libido is high and I can get a full erection by using my imagination or when having intercourse. Could the lack of morning wood be cause for concern related to low testosterone? Submitted May 22, 2020 at 12:11AM So I 18M don't get morning erections or random erections throughout the day. Haven't got them in a few years. My libido is high and I can get a full erection by using my imagination or when having intercourse. Could the lack of morning wood be cause for concern related to low testosterone?

/u/_Dark_Mystery_ on I kind of came out to my bisexual friend and now she's ignoring me

That's awesome. I'm glad they understood. I'm only sharing my own personal experiences. May 22, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/KitonePeach on I told my mum that I was asexual and I got an unexpected response

I suspect that one or both of my parents are in the ace spectrum. I’m not out to them, and I think they’d dismiss the idea if I tried to explain that I’m ace, but I’m glad they don’t often question why I’m twenty and never show interest in dating. May 21, 2020 at 11:59PM

/u/NoctilucentNimbus on How do you feel about kissing?

Wow, there's a lot more people than I was expecting towards the making out side xD. Yay, for not being alone. May 21, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/heisdeadjim_au on Make sure your ace ring is not too tight

I made a ring, so measured it as I went. After the hot ouchy parts were done. As to my specific Ace ring I went to jewelry stores and tried on rings to learn sizing. Then one day I went to a LGBTQIA+ Pride Fair and there was someone selling rings. "That one!" And walked away with it. May 21, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/KitonePeach on crocheted myself an asexual wall hanging

Cool! I just started using quarantine as an excuse to teach myself how to crochet! Guess I have to buy some purple and black yarn now. May 21, 2020 at 11:56PM