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I (16m) don’t know what to do with my relationship anymore

This is gonna be a long one so buckle up. So a bit of background before I get into everything. Last summer before my bf and I started dating we were in the talking stage. This consisted of us talking almost everything and just trying to learn more about each other since before then we had never really spoken that much before even though we had several classes together. After a certain amount of time he starts to call me things like “sexy” and some other inappropriate name I can’t remember considering it was while ago. I tell him several times while trying to be nice that I’m not comfortable with him calling me that and I asked him to stop. He’d get a slight attitude and he’d stop for maybe a day and then go back to the name calling. One day I snapped and I told him to stop and that if he insisted on saying that stuff then I didn’t want to continue talking to him. He got upset and lashed out saying that “he was tired of trying with me being so difficult” and that “he liked me for so ...

Emails from match.com after deleting account?

Hi all, Has anyone deleted their match.com profile but still been receiving emails after that with their usernam in the email? Submitted May 15, 2020 at 11:45PM Hi all,Has anyone deleted their match.com profile but still been receiving emails after that with their usernam in the email?

Ethnic Minority men, do you find your race makes it harder for you in dating?

Ethnic minority dude here (South Asian/European) - I do far far worse than my white male friends. Submitted May 15, 2020 at 11:46PM Ethnic minority dude here (South Asian/European) - I do far far worse than my white male friends.

Is it normal to get nervous around those who you know find you attractive?

Crushes are fine and all. Everyone should experience at least one in life for educational experiences. But after about the first 5 they just become blockades in your life (at least for me). My last crush lasted 5 years on this particular girl. Why didn't I ask her out? You might ask. Because I knew she liked me as well and that somehow terrified me. To be clear: If I had known my crushes like friends then I wouldn't have been nervous. But my crushes are always on girls I don't know. I just got over my last crush of 5 years earlier this year and I felt liberated. But once I found out she liked me I was too nervous to speak to her. I'm not even a nervous guy. I excel at talking to people. Which is why it was so liberating to not have a crush. Because it made me feel less paranoid and more relaxed. I've been walking around my workplace for the last few months now in perfect calm. And then this girl notices me... And she comes right over to me to introduce herself ...

Do you ever feel guilty for not wanting the flowers and chocolate bullshit?

I'm a (22F) and I have to admit...I'm attracted to toxic men. I love the chase and in the past I've sought after men with definitely not the best intentions. I've recognized this and have started to build healthier habits and going for nicer guys. At the same time though, I'm talking to this one guy (23M) and he's SO nice. Like SO SO nice. He wants to make me breakfast and buy me flowers and FaceTime me. And guess what? I HATE IT. It makes me so uncomfortable and kind of makes me want to gag tbh. Is something wrong with me? Is it possible to find a nice guy but THAT nice of a guy? lmao Submitted May 15, 2020 at 11:55PM I'm a (22F) and I have to admit...I'm attracted to toxic men. I love the chase and in the past I've sought after men with definitely not the best intentions. I've recognized this and have started to build healthier habits and going for nicer guys. At the same time though, I'm talking to this one guy (23M) and he's ...

Have any of you read The Art of Seduction? I'm having mixed views on this >

It goes into all kinds of personality types and how to tailor seduction techniques to them. I feel like some of the ideas are a bit far fetched. Keen to hear other people's thoughts on the book Submitted May 15, 2020 at 11:58PM It goes into all kinds of personality types and how to tailor seduction techniques to them. I feel like some of the ideas are a bit far fetched. Keen to hear other people's thoughts on the book

Does this make me a lesbian?

Am I a lesbian? I watch lesbians porn but not only the girl on girl ones, I use to watch guy on guy too. The thing is that finding a good straight porn is so long, it takes hours. Because all straight porn goes straight to the girl sucking him off, they don’t take the time to know make out, and him to just do hot things. But gay porns do that. They don’t rush to sucking each other off. When I watch them I don’t imagine my self as the other girl. I don’t really think about it when I’m watching it, I don’t wish she was doing it to me, I just wish a guy would. And for you think oh she’s a lesbian, I always cover my scene when the girls are going down on each other, I find that so gross. I always skip the kissing scene between gay porns, it is a time waster and I don’t see it hot. But somehow I find it hot when a guy roughly makes out with a girl. I notice I like it when straight and gay porns you know stoking boobs and play with it. Does watching gay porn make me a lesbian? I do...