Can we have a deeper question as to why this person in particular would be your partner? If someone reacted in that way with me, I wouldn't just pull out the Ace cards, I would pull the plug on our relationship. It would be over. No compromise. May 12, 2020 at 12:18AM

Likewise. I have a libido, yet I don't want sex. I would react the AAAAAA, with a "Eww, Get away, raper!" That's just my thing. May 12, 2020 at 12:16AM

Sure. (Maybe I misread your comment and thought you meant reproduction, not sex). As I have said, that other branch is much more comprehensive and worth discussing, than my comment. One of the important things, that was touched upon there is the perception of sex as something intergal to the rest of psychological needs. As part of reproduction, as part of romance, as part of validation as a person, etc. That said, I am curious, how desire to have children corelates with asexuality/allosexuality. May 12, 2020 at 12:10AM

Anything is a cake if you make a cake out of it May 12, 2020 at 12:09AM

Ah. Yeah, I see your point. It's pretty crap behaviour. Sorry you're feeling angry about it - if someone said something rude about asexuality to you, it's a reflection on their character, not anything wrong with you. May 12, 2020 at 12:05AM

Idk im pretty angry right now but anyways Telling asexuals they are asexuals because of hormone inbalance or trauma is like telling you have a brain tumor to a person with a headache. May 12, 2020 at 12:03AM

Wha? May 12, 2020 at 12:01AM