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So, I'm dating a girl with daddy issues.

Do girls with daddy issues want someone to be their rock(love/support) or do they want someone like their daddy(distant/uncertain), perhaps both? I am perplexed and intrigued by this girl I'm going out with. For context, I'm 32 years old, she's 8 years younger and we get along pretty great overall. I have read all books, been with tons of women and have never really had a problem figuring girls out, but I feel like I need a little help with this one. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 12:20AM Do girls with daddy issues want someone to be their rock(love/support) or do they want someone like their daddy(distant/uncertain), perhaps both? I am perplexed and intrigued by this girl I'm going out with. For context, I'm 32 years old, she's 8 years younger and we get along pretty great overall. I have read all books, been with tons of women and have never really had a problem figuring girls out, but I feel like I need a little help with this one.

Just days ago, I neatly told her, "Fuck you."

"My rebuke of you is not the parting you deserve from me. And your forgiveness for me is a gift that I'm joyfully indebted to. You have my sincerest admiration for the way your spirit wills towards that which calls it most justly. I want to begin a fruitful silence with you on a note of acceptance, and not of rejection. You deserve my praise and not my scorn." I could not let such hardness of heart persist.. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 12:11AM "My rebuke of you is not the parting you deserve from me. And your forgiveness for me is a gift that I'm joyfully indebted to. You have my sincerest admiration for the way your spirit wills towards that which calls it most justly. I want to begin a fruitful silence with you on a note of acceptance, and not of rejection. You deserve my praise and not my scorn."I could not let such hardness of heart persist..

OLD tips from 30's/F

I have been on & off OLD for over a decade and wanted to share some tips, as there's a lot of people who write "IDK what to say, just MSG me." Take what you like, leave what you don't. On mobile, sorry for formatting. Be honest. With yourself: what do you want? Hook ups, relationships, looking for someone to marry, or anything in between. If you don't know, that's okay. It's more important to be honest than to have a label. With your profile: there's some stuff you don't have to put on a profile, but be upfront with what you're looking for, hobbies or activities you engage in, some values or beliefs that are important to you. Mention things like: books you liked, games you rocked, role models you value(d). Focus on using positive wording, as you are selling yourself. You don't need to brag, but instead of saying something that's self deprecating, find a different perspective that is more relatable. Use current photos. It...

Miscarriage has turned me away from sex

Back in the end of January sadly my boyfriend (M24) and I (F22) went through a miscarriage. I bled for a solid two weeks, had a number of doctors appointments, and an OB appointment where they took a cervical biopsy causing me to bleed more. In this period of time we were having sex due to all of the bleeding. We had sex once before my period came last month and I hurt all over, mentally and physically. I did not enjoy it at all. Honestly I’m not even interested in sex right now and we have only had it 3 times since this incident. I’m not sure what I need to do to feel better. I know I need to meet his needs. I just don’t feel sexual at all. I don’t blame him for any of what happened. I have no resentment so idk why I feel this way. I think because he knows this he hasn’t initiated anything and quite frankly I don’t want to but idk what I should do. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 10:54PM Back in the end of January sadly my boyfriend (M24) and I (F22) went through a miscarriage. I b...

To those ladies who want children, if a guy told you he’d had a vasectomy would that be a deal-breaker?

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Bizzarre feelings. Hurt but horny? Anyone else experience this? Weird!

Me and my husband have been having some problems. You'll see if you check my posts lol. I've been working on trying to figure it out and I finally did this weekend. I know what's ailing him and why I've been so hurt but really it is unrelated to me. So that's good but we had some hard honest talks. Like I said something's I thought I'd never say. He said LOTS of things I've never heard. I would've never guessed like I was shocked he felt certain ways about things I say or do ie my very judgemental tone. I'm like what I have that?! I'm just expressive but okay. So I'll tone that down I guess. But something weird happened. I can't describe it. We were talking for the 3rd day (he's gone 5 hours away for work so we have to break up these long talks) and I was still hurt. But I was getting the answers I wanted and it was REALLY WEIRD the HONESTY was making me feel some type of way. Like it was giving my vagina a HEARTBEAT. Odd. 💦...

Post nut clarity after sex

Just got done, and I feel disgusted with what I just did. Is this because I’m not truly attracted to this girl or is it just a post but clarity thing? Has any guy in a relationship ever experienced this with their girlfriend where they aren’t attracted to them after the sex? How about guys who just hookup? Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:01PM Just got done, and I feel disgusted with what I just did. Is this because I’m not truly attracted to this girl or is it just a post but clarity thing? Has any guy in a relationship ever experienced this with their girlfriend where they aren’t attracted to them after the sex? How about guys who just hookup?