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Finding a place where I belong.

I would love to find a sex club or work in the porn industry. I am a very sexual person and I would love to have that kind of outlet for stress relief not to mention where I live is prudish to the point of repression. It is worse because if you're honest you're punished for it by being ostracized. I just want to find a place where I can be open about who I am and not feel like people are judging me. Submitted November 23, 2019 at 11:50PM I would love to find a sex club or work in the porn industry. I am a very sexual person and I would love to have that kind of outlet for stress relief not to mention where I live is prudish to the point of repression. It is worse because if you're honest you're punished for it by being ostracized. I just want to find a place where I can be open about who I am and not feel like people are judging me.

Orgasming More Than Once

So I've been sexual with this friend of mine(14/m) and I'm (16/f). He's very dominant and I'm incredibly submissive. I orgasm numerous times in just foreplay, is this normal? Submitted November 23, 2019 at 11:52PM So I've been sexual with this friend of mine(14/m) and I'm (16/f). He's very dominant and I'm incredibly submissive. I orgasm numerous times in just foreplay, is this normal?

Having difficulty maintaining erections. What can I do if that happens during our first time?

I notice it's hard to maintain an erection when we make out. I take prozac. That's a really common side effect. My diet is pretty bad too. I've tried vitality enhancing herbs like maca. I've stopped masturbating. But I'm still having trouble. She really has her heart set on spending the night next weekend too. .... What are some things I can do if I start having this problem? And should I tell her this? We're still pretty early into our relationship. I'm worried i might scare her away. Submitted November 23, 2019 at 11:57PM I notice it's hard to maintain an erection when we make out.I take prozac. That's a really common side effect. My diet is pretty bad too.I've tried vitality enhancing herbs like maca. I've stopped masturbating. But I'm still having trouble. She really has her heart set on spending the night next weekend too.....What are some things I can do if I start having this problem?And should I tell her this? We'r...

Would it be creepy if I (M/24) added a waitress (F/25?) i like on Facebook and Instagram?

There is a waitress at a restaurant that my family and I use to go to regularly (we've been going out less and less so not so much now). We talk a tad because she usually just works the front and brings people to their tables, so there's not really much time to converse. Recently I found her Facebook and instagram and I'm really tempted to add her but I don't want to come off as a creepy stalker or anything. But it turns out that she is mutual friends with many of my friends and just people I'm connected with on those sites, so I don't think it would be too bad. If asked, I could just say she popped up in my recommendations. I don't know when I'll go back to the restaurant, could be awhile, which is why I wanted to try this. What do I do? Tl;dr: There's a waitress i like that I found the Facebook and Instagram of. Would it be creepy if I added her even if we have mutual friends? Submitted November 23, 2019 at 11:17PM There is a waitress at a ...

Not sure if my (25F) supervisor (30M) is flirting or just being friendly

I started a new job about 3 months ago, and I think I'm happy there. My boss seems eager to give me more responsibilities and it falls to one of my supervisors to show me the ropes. He and I don't always work on the same shift, but when we do, he usually helps me learn new things. When I first met him, I thought he was easy on the eyes, but from a conversation he was having with a coworker, I thought he must be married or at least in a relationship and have a kid. I don't know why I thought that, but it turns out I was very wrong. Sometimes I get the vibe he may be flirting. People say you should trust your gut, but at the same time I'm worried that thinking he's into me is kind of self-centered. I'd like to list some moments that really stick out in my mind and I'd love to hear people's opinions on whether there may be something there or if I'm completely making it up. The most recent one and the one that prompted this post was when he was teac...

My (21) GF wants to go work on cruise ships. I don't know how to feel honestly.

So me (23M) am in a somewhat happy relationship with my girlfriend, I'll explain the "somewhat" part further down. INFO Been together for almost 2 years She's a music student and wants to do multiple contracts as an entertainer Im a soldier in a very time demanding unit We've broken up but not due to cheating, fighting etc. We live about 45 mins away from eachother but we make it work She studies halfway between both towns ​ We've always managed to conjugate our free time (weekends, and the occasional week day) just fine. Eventually falling into a routine of sorts. Which led her to doubt her feelings for me, and my plan on emigrating and making her end the relationship once. And another after i felt insecure about cruiseships and other issues in our lives, which led her to believe she was being toxic to me. Both break ups were very hard on her (her tears weren't an act), but were significantly less hard on me. We always kept in touch after the ...

I (20sF) need some tips on making marriage (20sM) more interesting

Hi all! This is a pretty lighthearted one. My husband and I have been together 7 years. Since we've gotten married we've had a few life changes and now things have settled considerably. I feel like we've become tired office drones and we live a very tame, unexciting life. Naturally most days life has to be this way but I'm sure there are ways we could improve things. We live about an hour from a city so we can theoretically go once per weekend and we've started going when we can. Museums, etc. Takes a lot of planning so never anything spontaneous in our lives. But as it stands it's Saturday evening and I've been watching netflix for three hours, lol. We went out this morning (errands, etc) so husband doesn't want to go out again, he's been playing games in the other room. Sigh. How have you livened up your marriage? We're homebodies with no children but I feel like life is passing us by and I'm starting to envy some of my single friends. Ho...