This is my first post on this subreddit but im wanting a few clarification on thing. I [17 M] have just struggled getting into a relationship and a friend of mine keeps criticizing me with the same thing. I am an overweight and sometimes obnoxious high schooler and i know it i can clarify on things but i almost hit on a [17 F] and regreted it because people thought she was too crazy for my taste. I can procide additional information if needed and help would be appreciated Submitted November 07, 2019 at 11:47PM This is my first post on this subreddit but im wanting a few clarification on thing. I [17 M] have just struggled getting into a relationship and a friend of mine keeps criticizing me with the same thing. I am an overweight and sometimes obnoxious high schooler and i know it i can clarify on things but i almost hit on a [17 F] and regreted it because people thought she was too crazy for my taste. I can procide additional information if needed and help would be appreciated

I noticed her return when her chat bubble welcomed my groggy eyes during my work break. As soon as i saw that accursed bubble my heart rate went haywire and i felt a sense of dread and confusion only comparable to that of when i first had a car accident. She was back, and a small primordial part of me wants to reply but i dont want to. Not even the slightest. At work atm. Been fighting the urge to open that chat bubble. Not gonna send her any motives that I'll still care even after ghosting me on probably my darkest days in my life so far. But what do i even do at this point man. Just vent to some poor soul? Answer her, face the music and all that shit? Until i find for certain what she said in that chat bubble I'll probably continue living in fear of smthng i already know. Suuucccs Submitted November 07, 2019 at 11:49PM I noticed her return when her chat bubble welcomed my groggy eyes during my work break. As soon as i saw that accursed bubble my heart rate went haywir...

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I took interest in this guy (19M) in my math class, after I caught signs of him being interested in me (I hope that this isn't a bad thing). I wanted to talk to him and get to know him better, so I asked him for his number. I asked him, a chemistry major, over text if he would help me study for my upcoming chemistry test. He said that he was extremely busy that week, and wouldn't be able to help me out with my test. It probably wasn't the best approach, but I don't really know him, and I thought asking him on a date would be too much. Now I'm worried that he thinks that I was going to use him, when I just wanted to spend more time with him. He didn't offer a different time that we could meet up, or check to see if I did well on my test. I think he's not really interested anymore, but I still want to ask if we could get coffee or something. I also want to clarify that I just wanted to hang out with him when I asked for help. I won't see him after this cl...

I'm not trying to be difficult, but I sometimes find it frustrating when certain guys/ potential dates ask me to show them around. Once they find out I'm a city native they forget about the actual date and ask me to instead show them around. I understand people believe it's a cute segway into dating and it's a smooth way of getting to know someone, but I don't want to be tasked with showing you around a city you can explore yourself. It's like becoming someone's friend just because you want them to teach you English or becoming someone's friend just so you can get car rides from them. It feels a little manipulative, like do you want to get to know me or do you want a map? It also seems like the "recently moved here" is an excuse for not finding a decent place to have a date. You can Google good restaurants and search nice spots to visit. Yelp is just as accessible to you as it is to me. And sometimes when a guy says, "you can show me aro...

So I've been seeing this girl for a little over a month. We've been on four dates so far and everything has been going really well. She's invited me to dinner at her house and I'm going to bring a bottle of her favorite wine. I thought it would be nice to bring flowers too, but I heard it can come off cheesy or needy if it's too early. Is it a good idea at this point? Submitted November 07, 2019 at 11:53PM So I've been seeing this girl for a little over a month. We've been on four dates so far and everything has been going really well. She's invited me to dinner at her house and I'm going to bring a bottle of her favorite wine. I thought it would be nice to bring flowers too, but I heard it can come off cheesy or needy if it's too early. Is it a good idea at this point?

I'd (24F) been dating this guy (29M) for about three weeks; everything was going great. We got along so well, and both agreed that it felt like it could be something special. He spoke highly of his feelings towards me, and I to him. We just clicked, and we both thought it was nice to finally find something different. The sexual tension was building as well and we were really looking forward to having our alone time. Finally, that time came around when I had the house to myself and we couldn't wait any longer. We were both so excited. And then we did it. And for some reason that I just can't figure out, it didn't feel right. It was like this amazing connection that we had built, just left. I feel so disappointed because everything was so great until then and we had clicked so well. I think back to it and I just feel so embarrassed, and wonder if he just wasn't attracted to me. Why does this happen? How can two people connect so well and have such amazing chemistry, ...