Tomorrow is our 9 year anniversary, and today my husband asked me to find something that is new sexually that would be different than our normal thing. I am at a loss. I am personally very submissive in sex and feel like I don't know what I am doing most of the time. I prefer to be told or asked about what we are doing. I feel like I am pretty awkward but these are a few things we have already tried, we have had threesomes and done hotwifing. I would really appreciate any ideas. Submitted September 25, 2019 at 12:29AM Tomorrow is our 9 year anniversary, and today my husband asked me to find something that is new sexually that would be different than our normal thing. I am at a loss. I am personally very submissive in sex and feel like I don't know what I am doing most of the time. I prefer to be told or asked about what we are doing. I feel like I am pretty awkward but these are a few things we have already tried, we have had threesomes and done hotwifing. I would really...