Oh crud. I've been sporting spades ever since joining the community, even though I'm not aro. May 30, 2019 at 04:39AM

23M here (turning 24 in 1.5 months). My preferred age range to date women is from 22-30. Not saying I'd date a 40 year old. But like I would prefer women slightly older than me because they would understand me better + less drama. I am just not a fan of trying to date teens/early-20 year olds. I mean when I look at women dating site profiles, they usually say age-1 to age +10 or so. But is it weird for a male to prefer women older? Submitted May 29, 2019 at 10:41PM 23M here (turning 24 in 1.5 months). My preferred age range to date women is from 22-30. Not saying I'd date a 40 year old. But like I would prefer women slightly older than me because they would understand me better + less drama. I am just not a fan of trying to date teens/early-20 year olds.I mean when I look at women dating site profiles, they usually say age-1 to age +10 or so. But is it weird for a male to prefer women older?

So I'm in a really nice relationship. My boyfriend is a great guy, but a few days ago I was hanging out with people not from my normal friend group. They briefly brought up the fact that my boyfriend dated my sister... I was shocked. We have been dating for a while and I've told him before I didn't care about his past relationships. So I might be in the wrong, but isn't that something you tell your partner. I have asked him about it, he did admit he dated her and it was before we met. He didn't know we were related until two months after we started dating or so. Plenty of time has past, am I in the wrong to think he should have told me? It is upsetting to find out from someone other than him. What do you guys think or any advice on how to react to this? Submitted May 29, 2019 at 10:56PM So I'm in a really nice relationship. My boyfriend is a great guy, but a few days ago I was hanging out with people not from my normal friend group. They briefly brought u...

Hi guys, recently went on a solid first date with a guy 10 day back. We ended up sleeping together on the first date and in the morning asked when he could see me again. A week after our date he invites me to a beach house with several of his friends for 2-3 days. ​ I'm pretty spontaneous and have in past have had guy into me to the point where they want me to fly out to see them, text/call everyday after one date - not as a fling, but as a potential girlfriend (just for context). however with this one I'm actually nervous because I quite like him, he didn't call/text everyday after our date and I'm trying to get a male perspective. thanks! Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:23PM Hi guys,recently went on a solid first date with a guy 10 day back. We ended up sleeping together on the first date and in the morning asked when he could see me again. A week after our date he invites me to a beach house with several of his friends for 2-3 days.​I'm pretty spontaneous ...

I know she doesn't like me it's obvious but I can't figure out how to get her out of my head. I try to stay busy at work but I'm always annoyed by the thought of her. I try to play video games but then I get distracted and do something stupid to screw myself in the game. I try studying but it gets boring fast. The only thing that works is drinking or getting high but I can't do that stuff forever. I tried following a bunch of hot girls on Instagram but I always lose interest fast. I need help getting her out! It's over it's done, I don't know why I keep torturing myself with the thought of her. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:27PM I know she doesn't like me it's obvious but I can't figure out how to get her out of my head. I try to stay busy at work but I'm always annoyed by the thought of her. I try to play video games but then I get distracted and do something stupid to screw myself in the game. I try studying but it gets boring fa...

I'm going to keep this plain and simple. I'm a guy and I'm curious on how I start dating cause I'm not the type of person who likes clubs or places like that and I'm unsure about dating apps due to things I've heard from friends etc. I have literally zero experience so any advice would be neato. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:56PM I'm going to keep this plain and simple. I'm a guy and I'm curious on how I start dating cause I'm not the type of person who likes clubs or places like that and I'm unsure about dating apps due to things I've heard from friends etc.I have literally zero experience so any advice would be neato.

I've come to the conclusion that my influence on the dating market is essentially nil, so I don't crusade and give people unsolicited advice, but the urge is sometimes still there. What do you see and wish you could say? Submitted May 30, 2019 at 12:01AM I've come to the conclusion that my influence on the dating market is essentially nil, so I don't crusade and give people unsolicited advice, but the urge is sometimes still there.What do you see and wish you could say?