LEAVE, please stay safe December 27, 2023 at 11:27PM

Well, you're demi, so I guess you don't get celebrity crushes? I stopped dating a while ago so those work for me, and I have occasionally thought about exes but not frequently. I'm a bit grey. I don't need the fantasy either, but it's more fun with one. December 27, 2023 at 11:24PM

forgive my ignorance but isnt this just saying that people who are queer come in many forms and so we can't just broadly place them into strict categories along with the expectations that come with those categories? and the last part is just saying that queer people who are in a heterosexual relationship are still queer? perhaps im missing the subtext December 27, 2023 at 11:19PM

It could also be romantic attraction, I think, but I consider those things to be very low key under the sexual umbrella. I'm a lil grey though. December 27, 2023 at 11:17PM

This is going to sound weird, but you didn’t mention it so I figured it might be worth asking: Have you been diagnosed with or suspect you might have ADHD? One of the big challenges for people with ADHD is starting complex tasks, and it often gets classified as laziness but it’s not. Given how you described that I figured it might be worth asking. December 26, 2023 at 11:10PM

I am 16 and only felt it once but I am.not so sure December 26, 2023 at 11:06PM

for context, I’m a 25-year-old female, I do have a career. I’m hoping to advance in the career after I obtain my masters. Should I settle for this guy? Basically, I asked him about what he would bring to the table, and he kept talking in circles. we were talking about the future, and how it would look if we were together. I told him that I would like for my children to grow up in middle-class or higher, because I grew up poor. he was like OK, he grew up upper middle class. I asked him what his plan for his life was career wise. He cannot give me a straight answer, he told me he did not know. At this point this man is 30 years old. My question is do I settle for him and hope he gets it together career wise? or do I keep exploring my options and meet someone who knows what they want career wise? I don’t like how I have to have a career and have these things to be appealing to him, but he doesn’t have to have those things to be appealing to me. Submitted December 26, 2023 at 12:10...