Got to the point where I was trying to exchange contact info with one of my matches. She seemed really interested and was the one to bring up exchanging contact info - I then said “sure” what’s your username” and the convo then immediately dried up. Now I’m overthinking and feel like I fucked up the tension by framing it as a question and I should’ve said “Sure send me your username”instead. Does something small like that really matter enough to drive someone away who seemed interested initially? It seems weird to me that something so small would drive someone away, are women usually fickle about the phrasing like that? Submitted December 13, 2023 at 12:16AM Got to the point where I was trying to exchange contact info with one of my matches. She seemed really interested and was the one to bring up exchanging contact info - I then said “sure” what’s your username” and the convo then immediately dried up. Now I’m overthinking and feel like I fucked up the tension by framing it as...

All Bees Become Angels December 11, 2023 at 11:07PM

Very interesting, thank you for sharing that insight! It's great that you are just fine with it and that there was no big emotional chaos around it. December 10, 2023 at 11:19PM

I 18f have been seeing this guy 20m that I met at a college event a couple months back. We’ve been talking for like 2 months but due to college and assignments etc we weren’t able to meet up that much but when we did it was good but brief. He’s told me a good few times that he has loads of college work to do and once semesters over we’ll hang out more and he also apologised for being inactive . We were suppose to meet up on Thursday but he said he wasn’t feeling well and asked when next I’m free. So we both settled for Monday. Where I live is normally very chilly during the winter so I was wondering if it’ll be weird if I were to ask him if we can chill in his dorm and order food( our plan was to get food anyway). The first night I met him he did bring me to his dorm but I was too scared to go in because I had just met him that night and I didn’t want to do anything i wasn’t comfortable with so we just sat on the stairs instead. He’s never gave me any red flags or touched me inappr...

Sorry you had this bad experience. Another person here to say you aren’t alone. I had a sex with someone I had been friends with for about 4 months just to get it over with (wasn’t sexually attracted to him) and it really confirmed for me that 1. I can’t go through with oral sex (ever again), and 2. that I can’t have sex with someone who I’m not in a committed relationship with. I’m sex-indifferent, repulsed leaning… but I remember feeling so gross and sick to my stomach the next day thinking about it, I still I feel gross when I think about some of it… He’s the only person I’ve ever slept with and probably the only person I ever will, and I’m perfectly happy with that being the case. Anyway, i hope you feel better, again, sorry to hear you had that bad experience. December 08, 2023 at 11:01PM

Noooo. I stay away from Disney adults, not gonna lie. December 07, 2023 at 11:10PM

Hi all, I'm very new to the dating spade as a 21M, I matched with a girl a few days ago and we hit it off quite well in the texts I decided to ask her if she wanted to meet up this weekend but she said she's not available until January sadly but would really like to do so whenever she can, this isn't a problem for me as I'm only going to be here for 2 more weekends as I'll be going home for Christmas until January when I will be back first week of January, Is it worth me trying to continue this or is she just using it as an excuse not to meet up? Submitted December 07, 2023 at 12:17AM Hi all, I'm very new to the dating spade as a 21M, I matched with a girl a few days ago and we hit it off quite well in the texts I decided to ask her if she wanted to meet up this weekend but she said she's not available until January sadly but would really like to do so whenever she can, this isn't a problem for me as I'm only going to be here for 2 more weeke...