If I thought someone was genuinely interested in having sex, and they pretended "well", then I later learned they would have preferred not to and only acted to be interested on my behalf (through no coercion or pressure of my own) I 100% would feel guilty for no logical reason and struggle with thoughts I somehow pressured them without knowing. Please ace or not, sexual attraction or not, never tolerate anyone pretending to enjoy sex it is not fair to that partner that was under the belief it was enthusiastic consent. That all being said, I totally understand having to feign consent and tolerate sexual activity I wasn't interested in due to coercion and guilt tripping. In that case, obviously someone is taking advantage of someone and it doesn't matter if I was ace or not I wasn't interested. I was commenting on the way the TikTok was worded, it didn't include the context of "I pretended for survival" like we did.. October 29, 2023 at 10:59...

48M heteroromantic ace here! Add me to the roll-call, pleeeeease! Where the heck did you find other asexuals?! Good work! 😅 October 29, 2023 at 10:57PM

Hi Guys , firstly English isn’t my Mother Language so forgive my many mistakes . Long story short Me(32M) dated twice with her ( 26F) about 2 months ago. I had some problems with my family in my country , and I was dealing with the possibility to get back to my country or stay here and start a relationship with her , for 3 weeks I ghosted her ( stopped to communicate) because I was very sad with this situation and I didn’t have courage to tell her my problems . So this week we started to text again and we set another Date , I invite her to go to movie theater and she endly agreed to watch movie in my house. We had an excellent night ( sex , conversation , laughs) . Next day I invite her to go to a concert that will happen in two weeks , she told me “ I won’t lie to you , but I’m dating another guy for a month ) and yes I notice that she was posting some stories on IG in fancy restaurants but never showed him . Now she told me that she is excited with this new dude and want to try work...

Hello, so I will be vague due to unsure if the girl has reddit. So I am in a college class to get a certification to work in medical field. And I have been doing my own thing. But there is this really cute girl who is my classmate. Now even as adults we make assumptions. Now a few people in our class get along better with others. Now this girl usually talks to this 1 guy a lot well we thought they were dating. Well recently me and that girl have been talking more while in class and on breaks. A lot seems really innocent really but like today she was chatting and blushing and joking. One thing I do is tease and say how cute her handwriting is as its really tiny. Well today she would constantly look back and show me her notes and I made normal comments. Well after my comments she wrote a tiny bit bigger and said something like "see I can write bigger" we exchanged our laughs and focused on class. During our break we saw the snow. So we just went outside and enjoyed it teased ...

So full disclosure, we know each other from a hobby group and we get along well but i never directly asked her number. I only know her number because the hobby group created a group text. So it's not like i'm a stranger, i just didn't ask her number myself. Would it be weird if i message her privately? We have common interests and she seems very comfortable talking to me. She was kind of shy at first to everyone but she opens up to me a good bit. Submitted October 29, 2023 at 12:04AM So full disclosure, we know each other from a hobby group and we get along well but i never directly asked her number. I only know her number because the hobby group created a group text. So it's not like i'm a stranger, i just didn't ask her number myself. Would it be weird if i message her privately?We have common interests and she seems very comfortable talking to me. She was kind of shy at first to everyone but she opens up to me a good bit.

Hey, I had a somewhat weird second date. We were sitting in the restaurant and nicely chatting, then 2 young girls with 2 babies come and sit on the neighbour table. I was telling some story and suddenly my date turns to these girls and starts speaking his mother tongue. And they do so for several minutes, completely excluding me. I was not knowing what to do, where to look, super confused. Then after a long time as it seemed tells me, they are diplomants and blabla. Then later these girls are about to leave and he starts again all of the sudden speaking with one of them for a couple of minutes and !takes her phone number! I look completely confused at him and he tells me he wants to send her information about some event for their country people in our city. After my shock the date continued nicely actually but now I am reviewing it and I don't knooow what to think. It was disrespectful in my opinion, should I tell him this? But don't want to sound jealous and needy. Need yo...

so i recently started talking seeing this girl. i really like her and i have the feeling she feels the same. next week it will be three weeks since we met/started hanging out however i know its been less then a month which is a pretty short time frame but next week we have plans to goto the the pro soccer game and it will already be our 4th time hanging out exclusively where its just me and her. two of the four times we have had plans she has been the one to bring up hanging out with one another (keeps beating me to it) the touch barrier has been broken and we still see each other. after we go out for the game next week since we have hung out so much in a short period of time and the touch barrier has been broken, for example when we were at the bar the other night when i put my arm around her she grabbed my hand and held it for a good bit of time do you think due to stuff like that, her bringing up seeing each other again and how much we have already hung out its safe to say theres i...