I'm aegosexual, so I enjoy how it feels in the moment. After I finish, I usually just go back to what I was doing and pay it no more thought, haha. I don't really feel any shame or guilt from it, it's just a thing I do sometimes when I'm bored or need to kill time while my conditioner sets in my hair. Sometimes I get a little annoyed if I feel it took too long, but that's about it, really. August 23, 2023 at 10:57PM

I literally didn't watch Food Wars for this very reason. Doesn't help that the majority of the characters are minors. August 22, 2023 at 11:33PM

Thank you it's so obviously fake and gross August 21, 2023 at 10:51PM

Not wanting children is one of the reasons why I'm asexual. August 21, 2023 at 10:50PM

I’m sex indifferent and romance repulsed aroace. If I think someone if romantically interested then yes I do feel quite uncomfortable, the idea of me dating anyone makes me feel gross and I guess someone telling me they think about me that way is an extension of that. If someone is interested in me sexually then I don’t really feel anything either way, except perhaps mildly guilty that I don’t feel anything back. That said, if I turn them down then that feels a bit awkward (but just in the same way as if you say no when someone offers you some food and you don’t want it, like you’re being ungrateful) and if I accept then I worry they’ll want something more (but that’s mostly me being romance repulsed). Ask your partner, they’ll know best as it varies massively from person to person August 20, 2023 at 11:33PM

Oh man, the daddy/mommy/baby sexy thing just is really incomprehensible. I just do not understand how people can do that without connotations of incest/pedophilia. It squicks me every time. Had a friend argue that Daddy was just so very obviously different from referring to any actual Dad and it shouldn’t bug me. She overshared about her sex life and used Daddy a lot. I asked her how she’d feel if I said Grandpa was getting lucky tonight because of my new toy and lingerie purchase to celebrate my birthday. She said that was different, and huffed off. August 19, 2023 at 11:28PM

Well because I’m asexual and I also don’t date people. Because honestly usually you date people to meet someone to have sex, if you’re Allo, which is most of culture. I guess I just happen to be both some degree of aromantic and also ace. 🤷🏻 August 19, 2023 at 11:27PM