Open and honest communication is the best way to start a relationship! I know it’s scary. But you have an opportunity to set boundaries now and prevent issues that might arise in the future. Also, please be careful! “Meeting up” might have other connotations or he might have expectations that you don’t. Please take care of yourself! July 20, 2023 at 11:12PM

I mean, seriously, no wonder your father left. July 19, 2023 at 11:18PM

He states that he can watch porn to relieve himself and can control his urges. He constantly asks me if I'm okay with certain behavior like showering together, touching mine or his ass, etc. He wants to know what he can or can't do and respects it. July 19, 2023 at 11:07PM

Okay, then I decline to answer. What’s the survey about anyways? July 18, 2023 at 11:09PM

Well kid, I'm really happy that you learned about asexuality so early in your life! If you're never attracted to anyone, if you're kinda meh on the concept, that's okay! It's okay to be unsure, it's okay to find exceptions from time to time, and it's okay if you wear the label for a little while, or don't, or whatever you want. You can look at porn and take "personal time" and still not be attracted to anyone and still be Ace. It's tough to figure out who you want to be. Here's the important part... You're still a lovable and worthy human being. July 18, 2023 at 11:09PM

I took a break awhile from the dating scene after this girl did me wrong but anyways I’m over it now and decided to hop back on tinder. I’ve been on it for a few days and have gotten a few matches and like 15 likes that I can’t even see since I refuse to pay for tinder. Unfortunately all my matches never end up going anywhere. For example this girl I matched with that was really cute I talked to briefly over tinder and then got her snap. Thought it went well but now I can’t even get a response back after trying to plan a date. Not sure what I’m doing wrong any advice? Submitted July 17, 2023 at 11:59PM I took a break awhile from the dating scene after this girl did me wrong but anyways I’m over it now and decided to hop back on tinder. I’ve been on it for a few days and have gotten a few matches and like 15 likes that I can’t even see since I refuse to pay for tinder. Unfortunately all my matches never end up going anywhere. For example this girl I matched with that was really c...

I want to preface this by thanking anyone who reads this and gives advice. (Thanks for reading regardless if you have any advice or not) I have been mostly attracted to Asian women for a good portion of my life. Particularly women of Chinese, Japanese and Korean descent. I have been on a few dates here and there but I have never had a girlfriend. I think I would have more options regarding potential partners if I was attracted to women who looked differently. Does anyone have any advice for finding white, black, Hispanic, ect women attractive? I have only approached Asian women for the last 3 years. I'm limiting myself especially since I am not Asian and people tend to date within their race generally. I greatly appreciate any advice. Submitted July 18, 2023 at 12:11AM I want to preface this by thanking anyone who reads this and gives advice. (Thanks for reading regardless if you have any advice or not) I have been mostly attracted to Asian women for a good portion of my lif...