I took a break awhile from the dating scene after this girl did me wrong but anyways I’m over it now and decided to hop back on tinder. I’ve been on it for a few days and have gotten a few matches and like 15 likes that I can’t even see since I refuse to pay for tinder. Unfortunately all my matches never end up going anywhere. For example this girl I matched with that was really cute I talked to briefly over tinder and then got her snap. Thought it went well but now I can’t even get a response back after trying to plan a date. Not sure what I’m doing wrong any advice? Submitted July 17, 2023 at 11:59PM I took a break awhile from the dating scene after this girl did me wrong but anyways I’m over it now and decided to hop back on tinder. I’ve been on it for a few days and have gotten a few matches and like 15 likes that I can’t even see since I refuse to pay for tinder. Unfortunately all my matches never end up going anywhere. For example this girl I matched with that was really c...

I want to preface this by thanking anyone who reads this and gives advice. (Thanks for reading regardless if you have any advice or not) I have been mostly attracted to Asian women for a good portion of my life. Particularly women of Chinese, Japanese and Korean descent. I have been on a few dates here and there but I have never had a girlfriend. I think I would have more options regarding potential partners if I was attracted to women who looked differently. Does anyone have any advice for finding white, black, Hispanic, ect women attractive? I have only approached Asian women for the last 3 years. I'm limiting myself especially since I am not Asian and people tend to date within their race generally. I greatly appreciate any advice. Submitted July 18, 2023 at 12:11AM I want to preface this by thanking anyone who reads this and gives advice. (Thanks for reading regardless if you have any advice or not) I have been mostly attracted to Asian women for a good portion of my lif...

So I (M23) basically just got home today after spending an amazing week with my LDR partner (F20) whom I have dated for quite a few years. Now any time I think of her I can’t help but cry because I can’t hold her in my arms, I still feel a sort of “phantom pain” on my legs and arms where she would sit and where I would hold her. Anyways, point I’m trying to make is how do I cope with not being able to see her for at least a few months and sort of adjusting to how things used to be? I didn’t think it would be this hard since I wasn’t this bad when we met last year. It just feels awful and I want some way of dealing with this any help is greatly appreciated Submitted July 18, 2023 at 12:15AM So I (M23) basically just got home today after spending an amazing week with my LDR partner (F20) whom I have dated for quite a few years. Now any time I think of her I can’t help but cry because I can’t hold her in my arms, I still feel a sort of “phantom pain” on my legs and arms where she w...

That is actually not the point people are making. The point is: We already have a problem with visibility compared to some of the other letters. Making the A about Allie often leads to the ace spectrum being left out completely. Its a visibility and erasur issue. July 16, 2023 at 11:36PM

Ok, I'll try this. Thank you! July 16, 2023 at 11:31PM

How did you make this so perfect!! July 15, 2023 at 11:20PM

I’ve been talking to this girl at my job for 6 months, she loves flirting with me and she always looks to try to sit next to me, we take care of each-other. However, when I text her she is very dry sounds uninterested. What should I do? Submitted July 14, 2023 at 11:59PM I’ve been talking to this girl at my job for 6 months, she loves flirting with me and she always looks to try to sit next to me, we take care of each-other. However, when I text her she is very dry sounds uninterested. What should I do?