That is actually not the point people are making. The point is: We already have a problem with visibility compared to some of the other letters. Making the A about Allie often leads to the ace spectrum being left out completely. Its a visibility and erasur issue. July 16, 2023 at 11:36PM

Ok, I'll try this. Thank you! July 16, 2023 at 11:31PM

How did you make this so perfect!! July 15, 2023 at 11:20PM

I’ve been talking to this girl at my job for 6 months, she loves flirting with me and she always looks to try to sit next to me, we take care of each-other. However, when I text her she is very dry sounds uninterested. What should I do? Submitted July 14, 2023 at 11:59PM I’ve been talking to this girl at my job for 6 months, she loves flirting with me and she always looks to try to sit next to me, we take care of each-other. However, when I text her she is very dry sounds uninterested. What should I do?

I(24f) would say we are quite close, we talk to each other every shift that we have together, and usually about things that are alot more personal than the things the average person would talk about with a co-worker. He’s(58) driven me home a few times, and we’ve talked outside of work quite a few times. He’s helped me out at work many times and is a help to me outside of work too. We joke around with each other alot and are very similar in personality. The one day, we were walking to his car while talking to another one of his buddies and called me ‘his girl’, and i liked it, but I’ve been overthinking it ever since. A part of me is scared that he just sees me like an adopt child and i don’t want to fuck up the friendship we have together by telling him i have romantic feelings for him. Idk what to do, and everyday, the feelings get stronger.. Submitted July 15, 2023 at 12:05AM I(24f) would say we are quite close, we talk to each other every shift that we have together, and usu...

That's a good reason :) July 13, 2023 at 11:11PM

I always just felt either indifferent, like it was a task I did to make my boyfriend happy and nothing else, or uncomfortable when kissing. So I relate to you on that. I don’t have much experience on this front though (only have kissed 2 people in my 23 yrs of life). It just seems weird to me and not like something I could see me initiating with future partners unless they do first. July 12, 2023 at 11:16PM