yeah, 100% agree, not everyone is into sex, at the very least not at that moment (again, people may change, and that's okay). May 13, 2023 at 01:09AM

So a guy at my work told me that the best way I can get a girlfriend is to do the following: Shower every day, put on deodorant, take decent care of myself and be competent with money. He said that women, especially in their 20's put up with more bullshit than I can imagine and that the best card I can play is to be a self-sufficient, competent adult. Is this actually true? Like there isn't any fancy bs to it, just be a mature adult and you have the cards in your favor? Submitted May 13, 2023 at 01:00AM So a guy at my work told me that the best way I can get a girlfriend is to do the following: Shower every day, put on deodorant, take decent care of myself and be competent with money. He said that women, especially in their 20's put up with more bullshit than I can imagine and that the best card I can play is to be a self-sufficient, competent adult. Is this actually true? Like there isn't any fancy bs to it, just be a mature adult and you have the cards in your...

As an allo, I knew with 100% confidence after the third paragraph that you are not allo. May 13, 2023 at 12:06AM

Was it this one? https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32535668/ May 13, 2023 at 12:01AM

so i (f20) have been kinda talking to this guy from work (m24) for a month, and i know he likes me. the problem is sometimes im really really into him and sometimes i get major icks from him. i don’t want to lead him on, but i cant figure out how i feel about him. this is the first time anyone’s ever shown interest in me (as far as i know) and don’t really know how to navigate all of the feelings im having. Submitted May 13, 2023 at 12:16AM so i (f20) have been kinda talking to this guy from work (m24) for a month, and i know he likes me. the problem is sometimes im really really into him and sometimes i get major icks from him. i don’t want to lead him on, but i cant figure out how i feel about him. this is the first time anyone’s ever shown interest in me (as far as i know) and don’t really know how to navigate all of the feelings im having.

This is such a weird situation and I want to see what others think. I (29F) went on a date with this guy (33M) and that first date left me so excited and hopeful, he made me feel like I haven’t in a looooong time, so I spent the couple days after our date eager to get to know him more. Fast forward to today, I find a piece of chewed up gum stuck to the bottom portion of my top kitchen cabinet which is located above my fridge. I know for fact that it was not there a couple weeks ago, I even have photos that show that part of my kitchen with no piece of gum. Since the last photo of a clean cabinet, only 2 people have been in my home - a friend of mine and this guy I went on the date with. I know it’s not my friend’s gum because 1) she’s too short to reach where it was stuck (I needed a stool to take down the gum) and 2) I know her and she would definitely not do that. So I’m 90% certain it’s this guy I went on a date with. I’m so confused as to why he would do this? I’m also so disappoi...

It’s interesting to me how some people are naturally attractive. Like Kaarija the Eurovision singer representing Finland. Obviously he is funny and an extrovert goof. But we all know guys like that yet he created a huge hype around the world. What would you think is it that makes him attractive? Submitted May 12, 2023 at 01:07AM It’s interesting to me how some people are naturally attractive. Like Kaarija the Eurovision singer representing Finland.Obviously he is funny and an extrovert goof. But we all know guys like that yet he created a huge hype around the world.What would you think is it that makes him attractive?