I (27M) probably know the answer (to move on and forget her) to this but wanted some advice. I was talking to someone from Bumble for 2 weeks (she went out of town right after we started talking) and was supposed to see her (27F) tomorrow. She let me know today that she just isn't ready to date after trying Bumble out. I believe this as she's preparing to move (just across town) and starting a demanding job as a resident physician at a hospital. I normally wouldn't care and would just move on, but we clicked really well and much better than almost every girl I've talked to on dating apps (100+ over the years of being on/off). I think we would really hit it off if we went out. I responded already to let her know that I understand and wished her luck but to message me if she changes her mind. She thanked me for being understanding about it. A few hours have passed now and part of me wants to message her that I think we'd really hit it off if we go out and to give it...

I apologize but I wanted to read this but im literally too tired to comprehend it May 23, 2022 at 11:17PM

Demiromantic and demisexual May 23, 2022 at 11:16PM

Additional note she said she would love to see me again and we’ve exchanged numbers. I was just scrolling through bumble because I wanted to look at her pictures again only to find she’s deleted her app. Please help, I need the female perspective. Submitted May 24, 2022 at 12:12AM Additional note she said she would love to see me again and we’ve exchanged numbers. I was just scrolling through bumble because I wanted to look at her pictures again only to find she’s deleted her app. Please help, I need the female perspective.

I'm very curious on this topic. If you are a woman, or identify as a woman, please take a minute and say what YOU look for in a partner...thanks for your time! Submitted May 24, 2022 at 12:13AM I'm very curious on this topic. If you are a woman, or identify as a woman, please take a minute and say what YOU look for in a partner...thanks for your time!

Could I ask what a “double demi” is? How is it different to being demisexual? May 23, 2022 at 11:16PM

I (26M) have had a crush on my coworker(25F) for months. She’s quiet and a bit mysterious and loner. I finally asked her out and ended up spending the night with her. Best I’ve ever had by far. I’m still having flashbacks of it all. She also told me all about her life. She told me about how she cheated on her ex and fought with her siblings and won’t call her dad and how her college friends hate her and how she does risky things for fun. Way too many red flags but she was horrifyingly honest about it and surprisingly, I don’t feel repulsed or like running away. I’m confused as my friends say she sounds like bad news but I’m attracted to her even more after last night. Should I ask her on another date or act like it never happened when I see her at work tomorrow? Submitted May 23, 2022 at 01:14AM I (26M) have had a crush on my coworker(25F) for months. She’s quiet and a bit mysterious and loner. I finally asked her out and ended up spending the night with her. Best I’ve ever had ...