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/u/Emer_Sonic_Boom on I hereby second this

i thought of hisoka from hxh lol March 20, 2022 at 12:54AM

Did I lose him?

So, I started talking to this guy and after talking everyday for a month he asked me out and we we're gonna go to the movies on a Saturday. One day before the "date" he said he had a party to go on Saturday, and asked me if we could go on Sunday because of that. I said I wasn't available on Sunday and he said ok. This was Friday morning. On Friday night he told me he had a discussion with his dad and he wouldn't let him go anymore, but I think it was a lie and he went to the party instead. After this, we talked only a few times only because I texted him and he doesn't seem interested anymore. Should I be direct and ask him about it or... idk Submitted March 20, 2022 at 01:03AM So, I started talking to this guy and after talking everyday for a month he asked me out and we we're gonna go to the movies on a Saturday. One day before the "date" he said he had a party to go on Saturday, and asked me if we could go on Sunday because of that. I sa...

/u/Dinner_Plate21 on Any non-aromantics intending to never date again?

That's basically where I am too. Being sex-repulsed on top of gray-ro ace means the chances of me finding someone are extremely slim. I'm open to it if it happens, but not something I'm seeking out. March 20, 2022 at 12:10AM

How to tell a girl that I’m friends with that I have feelings for that I need a break from talking to her?

I (20M) became good friends with this girl (20F) in September, but I caught feelings for her in January. I found out yesterday that she’s talking to another guy that I know. She’s not the most emotionally stable person right now and has been going through a really hard time. I want to be there for her to help as a friend, but it hurts to see her, knowing she doesn’t have feelings for me. I want to tell her that I have feelings for her, but that I need a break from being friends with her for a bit until I get over her. I want to do this in the nicest way possible because I know that she really values our friendship and she’s going through a tough time. I don’t want to hurt her more. How do I do this? Submitted March 20, 2022 at 12:16AM I (20M) became good friends with this girl (20F) in September, but I caught feelings for her in January. I found out yesterday that she’s talking to another guy that I know. She’s not the most emotionally stable person right now and has been going ...

/u/Wylecard on Dating apps suck

Depends on the app. Tinder is the hookup app but I've had good success with okcupid for finding queer people of varying sexual and romantic orientations including ace. March 19, 2022 at 11:21PM

Do y’all think this meant anything?

Today, I was training at the community center. After 4 hours, I was laying on the ground and this girl from my school walks over, stands over me, and asks “Down for the count, huh?” and then stepped over me and walked away. What do y’all thinks meant? Submitted March 18, 2022 at 04:20AM Today, I was training at the community center. After 4 hours, I was laying on the ground and this girl from my school walks over, stands over me, and asks “Down for the count, huh?” and then stepped over me and walked away. What do y’all thinks meant?

Help please

Soo there’s this girl that works at a dispensary I go to and she has been my tender a couple of times and we’ve had small conversations here and there, last night I decided to ask for her number… so I go into the store and I’m waiting in line, I look up from being on my phone and she’s looking at me and smiles at me I smile back and this rush of anxiety hit me, my hands started shaking, and I started to overthink everything, so she calls me to her register everything went normal but I just couldn’t ask for her number when I would think about asking her the anxiety would get worse. There was a lot of people in there too so that made the anxiety worse. She speaks a different language that I also speak idk if it’s weird to ask for her number in that language, I feel like it would be easier and less stressful. Submitted March 18, 2022 at 04:21AM Soo there’s this girl that works at a dispensary I go to and she has been my tender a couple of times and we’ve had small conversations her...