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Should I go for it?

There's this guy at my college who I'm in a club with. He seems so interesting and genuine. The thing is I'm having a hard time trying to build a friendship (at the very least) between us because we don't get one-on-one time. I've been seeing a lot of people say that if a guy is also interested he would let you know which I guess is true.. guys who have been interested in me have dropped hints and it didn't take me too long to realize. Part of me is wondering if I should bother at all because he already has my social media accounts but has never requested to add me. And I think that's the first thing he would've done by now if he was interested right? Submitted October 15, 2021 at 01:10AM There's this guy at my college who I'm in a club with. He seems so interesting and genuine. The thing is I'm having a hard time trying to build a friendship (at the very least) between us because we don't get one-on-one time. I've been seeing ...

Have any men here ever tried a matchmaking service? How did it work and how much did it cost?

I’m a 21[M]. I’m not ugly by any means, but I wouldn’t call myself godly attractive, but I’m at least average or above. I’m fit, blue eyes, I smile a lot, and I dress nice. Not suit and tie but I dress in nice clothes. I keep up with my hygiene too. I mean, I’m not very tall, but I already know and have accepted some girls will have an issue with that. I’m also not into the whole casual dating thing that’s popular now. I don’t care for hookups. I’m looking for an actual, serious connection. I really want to pursue a serious relationship, but I really don’t think I’m cut out for OLD. I’ve used tinder, bumble, hinge, you name it. I’ve given it an honest shot, even paid for the premium and some boosts. Out of the 3 years I’ve been on OLD, I’ve matched with a couple people each month. I never get responses. I get it though, I’m not gonna be everybody’s cup of tea and that’s ok. I think OLD isn’t gonna lead anywhere to be honest. I didn’t limit myself to OLD either. I’m a very outgoing ...

Is it all my fault ?

I got stupidly drunk in front of my boyfriend, i was already very depressed but now I feel 10 times worse. I don't remember what I did but it must've been bad because he's ghosting me. I feel like something broke in me. I made him lose respect for me. I apologized and he didn't reply. I genuinely can't do this anymore, I feel so ashamed and filled with disgust with myself. Submitted October 15, 2021 at 01:15AM I got stupidly drunk in front of my boyfriend, i was already very depressed but now I feel 10 times worse. I don't remember what I did but it must've been bad because he's ghosting me. I feel like something broke in me. I made him lose respect for me. I apologized and he didn't reply. I genuinely can't do this anymore, I feel so ashamed and filled with disgust with myself.

/u/JQShepard on Looking for a very specific type of relationship and afraid I won’t find it.

Maybe come check out r/platonicdating ? October 15, 2021 at 12:10AM

/u/Q1189998819991197253 on The relationship advice for repulsed/sex averse aces is a little discouraging.

I wish you people would stop fucking saying this. We get it. You can't CHOOSE to be poly if you're fundamentally mono, though. Most people talking about this are mono. We know people can be poly. We can't. It's not great advice when it's not applicable. October 15, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/sara_2332 on Sex scenes in movies

I love romantic scenes but i hate sex scenes makes feel uncomfortable October 15, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/Q1189998819991197253 on The relationship advice for repulsed/sex averse aces is a little discouraging.

Yeah, right? Fuck this. juSt bE PolyAmOrOuS October 14, 2021 at 11:59PM