Asexuals can enjoy masturbation, sex, porn, and other sexual things. All it means is that you lack sexual attraction to specific people. October 06, 2021 at 11:36PM

arousal is hella uncomfortable Is exactly why I have a hard time feeling valid as Ace. Now that I'm on testosterone blockers it helps sooo much that I'm not horny like a teen boy randomly 😅 October 06, 2021 at 11:34PM

Actually, to be honest I like to masturbate, but I didn't like touching my boyfriends or then he touched mine private parts, so maybe you right??? October 06, 2021 at 11:33PM

I have not used this site myself but one I have heard of you could try is AsexualCupid.com. Perhaps someone who has used this site will see this posting and offer a review of what they thought of it. It is a place to start anyway. October 06, 2021 at 11:29PM

Sounds like you could be heteroromantic + asexual, plus having low libido. October 06, 2021 at 11:27PM

I'm struggling to orgasm during intimacy and foreplay. He says it's about the connection between us and not to concentrate on the big 'O'. What can I do to help reach ecstacy, that way both needs are met? Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:25AM I'm struggling to orgasm during intimacy and foreplay. He says it's about the connection between us and not to concentrate on the big 'O'. What can I do to help reach ecstacy, that way both needs are met?

So about a year ago, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who I had dated for about 2 years. My ex was a sweet enough guy, but he was very vanilla and I... am not. I like very rough, degrading sex where I can be a bratty submissive and get fucking wrecked. During our relationship, my ex, we’ll call him Eric, and I would spend a lot of time at his best friend’s house. His best friend (Jake) was the complete opposite of my ex. Eric was very gentle, introverted, and shy. Jake was very loud, aggressive, and could be very obnoxious. Part of me disliked Jake for how dominating and masculine his personality was, but there was also a part of me that was super turned on by his aggressive personality. We would usually all hang out together and get high/drunk. I am already a very horny person sober, but fucked up me absolutely needs to get fucked senseless. We would often talk about sex together as well as discuss all of our past sexual exploits and I came to learn that Jake had a huge dick, was very...