I was about to say the same thing. “Yeah, but I am gay, so…” lmao July 16, 2021 at 12:38AM

As a teenager, all the time! Mostly because of my short hair or when they found out I didn’t have a boyfriend and wasn’t interested in getting one. Never bothered me much though. July 16, 2021 at 12:37AM

Link? July 16, 2021 at 12:36AM

The subtlety was a big reason I picked them! I haven't gotten the jewelry from the first shop yet (longer shipping period) but I can say the second one I like a lot and it's not expensive, too! I'm glad you liked them! July 16, 2021 at 12:34AM

Yep. Apparently it's easier to believe that I'm a closeted lesbian rather than just not interested. July 16, 2021 at 12:34AM

I got asked if I was a lesbian a lot in highschool. I'm biromantic so it's not a horrible guess. July 16, 2021 at 12:33AM

(1) consider if you were subconsciously flirting. Grayaces exist. (2) Be aware of fair weather friends. Imagine coming out to each close person, and try to predict what the outcome would be. (3) A counterbalance to pt 2: only come out to ppl if you think it will help the relationship. July 16, 2021 at 12:33AM