no May 09, 2021 at 12:02AM

They also listed ‘intellectuals’ as a turnoff so just a questionable person all around lol May 09, 2021 at 12:00AM

Honestly? I kinda think (some/many?) people expect asexual people do not give a shit about their appearance, (especially when it's a man's expectations towards an asexual feminine person, bc het-normative patriarchy) with the logic being "Why would you want to be attractive (look good) if you're not trying to attract anyone", and we're generally expected to have [[virgin vibes]]. We, uh, live in a society May 09, 2021 at 12:00AM

Different kinds of attraction: Aesthetic: They look beautiful. Romantic: They make my heart beat faster thinking about doing nice things for them to make them happy. Sensual: I want to touch and be touched by them. Sexual: I want to take off their clothes and... Libido isn't directed at someone. It's just an overall desire for sexual release of some kind. Some sex repulsed asexuals have high libido and it annoys them. Asexuality is very specifically about not experiencing sexual attraction towards others. That's the entire deal. If you don't experience sexual attraction towards others, you're asexual. It's not all that complicated, really. It doesn't matter why. Could be trauma, hormones, or you were just always that way. Cause is irrelevant to the label. Asexuality has nothing to do with: romantic attraction, kissing, cuddling, gender preferences, masturbation, porn, kinks, or actually having sex. It's just about sexual attraction towards othe...

True. May 08, 2021 at 11:56PM

Real aces carry mini dragons in their shirt pocket May 08, 2021 at 11:56PM

I need that dress though May 08, 2021 at 11:55PM