Demisexual is when you function as an asexual until you form a particular connection with someone, and after that you function as an allosexual with them with full sexual attraction. You can be anywhere on the asexual or allosexual spectrums. Demiromantic is the same, except romantic attraction instead of sexual attraction. It sounds to me like you would be asexual and demiromantic. Asexuality is very specifically about not experiencing sexual attraction towards others. That's the entire deal. If you don't experience sexual attraction towards others, you're asexual. It's not all that complicated, really. It doesn't matter why. Could be trauma, hormones, or you were just always that way. Cause is irrelevant to the label. Asexuality has nothing to do with: romantic attraction, kissing, cuddling, gender preferences, masturbation, porn, kinks, or actually having sex. It's just about sexual attraction towards others. Some sex repulsed asexuals will use porn or ma...

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Also you owe him no pleasantries at all. April 30, 2021 at 11:56PM

delicious April 30, 2021 at 11:54PM

I'm not sure what advice you're looking for. Opening the marriage is a no go, sex is a no go - are you willing to give up sex for the rest of your life or not? Is there a third option I'm not seeing besides you committing to never having sex again and you guys getting divorced? Sorry if that's harsh, just I've experienced the resentment that can build in allo partners over time. Sometimes it's better for everyone involved to meet the hard realities head on instead of putting it off April 30, 2021 at 11:54PM

I tried to date a girl as an ace. Like her romantically, going well. She came out as aro ace. Now there’s two of us! In a small backwoods school. And I think I know a third. April 30, 2021 at 11:52PM

Yet April 30, 2021 at 11:51PM