Being aroace, you are probably happy hanging out with friends. Which is fine. If you lurk the db sub, allosexuals can have lots of problems when sexual libidos don't match. Causes all sorts of anxiety, depression, and malaise. I'm wish my libido was as low as my spouse. So I would have more time to focus on other things. February 21, 2021 at 12:01AM

I haven't put much thought into whether I'm sex repulsed, neutral or favourable. Guess I'll figure it out if I get a partner which is going to be difficult as I am both asexual and aromantic 😂 February 20, 2021 at 11:59PM

Because people think heterosexual is by default. So everything outside that it's not normal. Obviously this is wrong because everyone should explore their sexuality and theyr feelings at the age they prefer. Hope things will go better with your dad. February 20, 2021 at 11:58PM

Interesting. So you are sex favorable then? February 20, 2021 at 11:52PM

Yes. I don't think it's possible to not experience aesthetic attraction unless you are born without actual emotion, considering it has nothing to do with anything in specific. Aesthetic attraction is basically just "what looks good to the eye", and it's not really limited to people. Fashion is aesthetics. Color schemes are aesthetic. Patterns, textures, geometry, the shape of someone's face, hair, it's all aesthetic. Sexual attraction is to aesthetic attraction what scoville tolerance is to the concept of taste itself. February 20, 2021 at 11:39PM

that is the perfect choice! February 20, 2021 at 11:39PM

Huh okay yeah that makes sense. I hug my friends, after all. But what about kissing? I've never done it, so i wouldn't know how it feels, but it seems like a kind of grey area between platonic and sexual touch. I'm not quite sure how i feel about it yet but for sure more positively than i do about the idea of actual sex. February 20, 2021 at 11:36PM