Could be sarcoidosis or amyloidosis February 07, 2021 at 12:03AM

Yeah. It’s hard also because people really don’t understand it. I’m hoping eventually something will work out but my problem is that there’s not many people I can talk to February 06, 2021 at 11:59PM

I love kids! I’m still on the fence myself. I’m a firm believer that if you want kids it should be an enthusiastic “yes I want kids”. The children deserve it. I definitely want a partner more than I want kids. But if I did have kids I would use a surrogate and adopt. So I can have a bio kid and give another child a family. February 06, 2021 at 11:57PM

That explains why I love garlic bread February 06, 2021 at 11:57PM

Another one is the "grandma kisses".. complaining the partner gave them "just a peck" or "gives me grandma kisses" and "kisses me just like a friend".. what do you want? Porno style kissing every single time? February 06, 2021 at 11:56PM

Allo here. Personally I find this mentality really confusing, I would not consider cuddling or even kissing to be sexual, at least not inherently. They can turn sexual if there's groping involved and stuff but generally I consider them to be non-sexual behaviours. That said, I also have allo friends who are of the opinion that ALL touch is sexual, and they don't like hugging their siblings etc, and I will never understand them. February 06, 2021 at 11:56PM

Adoption will be my strategy February 06, 2021 at 11:56PM