have fun hehe January 20, 2021 at 12:05AM

thanks <3 January 20, 2021 at 12:04AM

Well, the obvious suggestion is that she should go to therapy. Though it feels disingenuous for me to suggest this as someone who personally refuses to go to therapy lol. The other suggestion would be to make sure you are validating her in other ways. Like, "I really love spending time with you" or "You are a great girlfriend because..." January 20, 2021 at 12:04AM

I have bony skinny hands. Hitting my knuckle is the worst! January 20, 2021 at 12:02AM

This may be weird but you have nice hands January 20, 2021 at 12:01AM

I have never made a big deal out of my own asexuality, either. Nobody's ever given me a hard time for being ace and seeing sex in media doesn't bother me. I've had the same feeling: why is it such a big deal for some people? Reading about other ace people's experiences - a lot of which are covered by the rest of the comments here - has shown me that being ace isn't as easy and straightforward for some folks. January 20, 2021 at 12:01AM

Thanks for the heads up, I do not mind that very much, and I also always take my rings of while taking a shower :) January 20, 2021 at 12:00AM