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Worried about potential painful sex

Hi, Basically i’m 21 years old (F) and i’ve never had sex. About 8 months ago i bought some toys including a 6 inch ‘realistic’ dildo. I have tried about 12 times to use it and every time it hurt. The first like 3 times i actually bled over it, but i thought after that the pain would go, but no. I was horny tonight and i tried to use it, i masturbated beforehand and can get 3 fingers in fine, no pain at all (i do have skinny fingers though). I absolutely covered it in lube, but as soon as it goes farther than the head it hurts. And then if i keep going and pressing onto it, it kind of ‘pops’ in but it STINGS whenever this happens. Then i can ride a little and generally get the whole length in. But then, to get it out it often gets stuck at the same point it popped in and it again really hurts. Like i have to pull it out and again it stings quite badly, the pain just is not worth it. Idk what is wrong, it just makes me so scared to have sex because idk how it isn’t going to be painfu...

I 16F can't orgasm or get much pleasure from masturbating with my hands, am I broken??

throwaway because I don't want this info on my main. I'm 16F, and I've been masturbating since...idk probably 10 or 11? I've always used pillows which was (and still kinda is) embarrassing to me I guess, but it's the only way I can orgasm. In order to feel more normal I've tried getting off with my hands, it doesn't work. I barley ever feel any pleasure, I don't get very wet, and I can NEVER orgasm. This has been a struggle for me for like 3 years and I just wanna to fix it. I tried a vibrator once, it was a cheap one from Spencer's. It said something to do with the g-spot on the front and it's long. I've only orgasmed with it once, and sometimes I can barley feel anything even from that. What's wrong with me??? Please help I'm really upset about this. Submitted March 30, 2020 at 12:04AM throwaway because I don't want this info on my main. I'm 16F, and I've been masturbating since...idk probably 10 or 11? I've a...

Condom falling off

For some reason my condoms keep falling off and I'm not sure if I'm not using the right kind or size. I can say that I am uncircumcised and I got a feeling that's part of the reason. any advice? Submitted March 30, 2020 at 12:06AM For some reason my condoms keep falling off and I'm not sure if I'm not using the right kind or size. I can say that I am uncircumcised and I got a feeling that's part of the reason. any advice?

To the guys out there, do guys actually like post cum play at all?

I'm a fairly dominant woman (22F) with a very high sex drive. I enjoy watching light femdom type stuff when I watch porn but nothing too hardcore. My favorite is men jerking off or woman jerking them off which sometimes ends in "post cum torture". I've never tried it with any of my past partners but I've been curious, do men ever enjoy that? I really really get off on my partner's pleasure so someone genuinely screaming "stop" in pain doesnt do it for me. But if they're only saying stop because its intense pleasure rather than pain I can see that being super hot. So I guess I kind of want to know any guys two cents on if it's good or bad usually or what it feels like if you can explain it. ? Submitted March 30, 2020 at 12:13AM I'm a fairly dominant woman (22F) with a very high sex drive. I enjoy watching light femdom type stuff when I watch porn but nothing too hardcore. My favorite is men jerking off or woman jerking them off whic...

Where to buy good cheap sex toys

Looking to buy some good cheap sex toys. Don’t want to spend too much money. Been thinking about ordering from Wish? Any experiences with that? Any recommendations on some places that I can order online for very cheap or affordable? Submitted March 30, 2020 at 12:18AM Looking to buy some good cheap sex toys. Don’t want to spend too much money. Been thinking about ordering from Wish? Any experiences with that? Any recommendations on some places that I can order online for very cheap or affordable?

My girlfriend is never in the mood

My (18M) girlfriend (18F) never gets in the sexy mood. She's into the lovey dovey stuff and so am I. But damn it I'm horny a lot and idk what to do, and before anyone starts I love her for her. Not her body, I'm just seeking advice. Submitted March 30, 2020 at 12:24AM My (18M) girlfriend (18F) never gets in the sexy mood. She's into the lovey dovey stuff and so am I. But damn it I'm horny a lot and idk what to do, and before anyone starts I love her for her. Not her body, I'm just seeking advice.

Social distancing & marriage

I thought my wife and I would be having a lot of sex during our time together at home, but turns out her vagina is doing its own social distancing. Submitted March 29, 2020 at 11:57PM I thought my wife and I would be having a lot of sex during our time together at home, but turns out her vagina is doing its own social distancing.