I was with my ex for 3 years, and only ever got her to climax a few times through oral despite trying anything she or i could think of. Her friends used to crack jokes about it and insult me, and that got pretty annoying. It kinda messed up any confidence i had in intimacy, and im too nervous to try hooking up with people for fear they wont climax either and the experience will disappoint them. Submitted January 26, 2020 at 11:30PM I was with my ex for 3 years, and only ever got her to climax a few times through oral despite trying anything she or i could think of. Her friends used to crack jokes about it and insult me, and that got pretty annoying. It kinda messed up any confidence i had in intimacy, and im too nervous to try hooking up with people for fear they wont climax either and the experience will disappoint them.

Hey so I'm a 17 year old guy and recently got a girlfriend and we have been sexual with eachother for about three weeks now. We have a problem, I commonly have troubles maintaining an erection, and I think this is mostly due to my penis feeling very numb whenever I am with her. I can barely feel anything when she touches it or I insert it. It feels better when I touch it myself when I'm with her but even then it doesn't feel nearly as good as when I'm in my room by myself. Basically when I masturbate it feels good and sensitive yet when I'm with her it just magically feels dull. What could be some reasons for this? Submitted January 26, 2020 at 11:31PM Hey so I'm a 17 year old guy and recently got a girlfriend and we have been sexual with eachother for about three weeks now. We have a problem, I commonly have troubles maintaining an erection, and I think this is mostly due to my penis feeling very numb whenever I am with her. I can barely feel anything wh...

I (21 F) have been seeing a guy (30M) for casual sex for about a month now, we’ve been meeting every Saturday night so I just saw him for the fourth time. Our sex is always amazing because he clearly knows what he’s doing in bed. I am a bit intimidated by him since he’s extremely attractive (he was a male model) and I’m just a regularly attractive girl. During our last session, he had me flipped on my stomach laying down, while having my torso propped up on a pillow against the wall. (I guess like, walrus position). He was really pounding his cock into me and I was taking every inch of it, it almost started to overstimulate me. I started to have bad thoughts like “you’re just a piece of meat, you’re a slut” which usually never happens to me. I couldn’t say anything and I started shaking uncontrollably and breathing heavily. My partner stopped to check in on me but I told him to continue. I’m not sure if I reached orgasm but the entire situation was extremely overstimulating. He came ...

Can I use lubelife silicone lube with condoms? I'm not really sure about this.. Submitted January 26, 2020 at 11:43PM Can I use lubelife silicone lube with condoms? I'm not really sure about this..

Hi! So this is a post about vaginal health but I'm a trans man (he/him), and I've been having some problems that don't seem to be going away. Over a week ago, I was hooking up with a male friend, it was great- fantastic even, he made me squirt, hard. But in the days after I continued to have discharge, or maybe urine, I couldn't tell. There was a lot of it- so much that it soaked through my boxers and made me chafe raw. After 4 days of this I finally went to Planned Parenthood and was tests for all sorts of things and diagnosed with BV. Pretty normal I guess, and not uncommon for transmen on Testosterone. However, I've been taking the antibiotics for 3 days and and I'm still having a problem. Should I wait longer? Is it possible it was urine and I also have BV? What would I do about that? I don't think I can get pregnant, and I seriously doubt I am, because he never finishes inside me. ( I haven't had a period in over 2 years and I'm on hormone rep...

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months. She's my first girlfriend and sexual partner. I'm 27 she's 21. I have a problem actually maintaining an erection during any sort of penetration. I can do okay if she's on top or it's a blowjob, anything else and I lose it within 15 seconds. The annoying part is if I'm by myself I have erections that last forever, it's irritating because I want her very badly... It's gotten better.. But not good enough, not even close. I don't know what to do. I'm tempted to just give up. She says it's no big deal but I know it irritates us both. Submitted January 26, 2020 at 11:53PM Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months. She's my first girlfriend and sexual partner. I'm 27 she's 21. I have a problem actually maintaining an erection during any sort of penetration. I can do okay if she's on top or it's a blowjob, anything else and I lose it within 15 seconds.The ann...

I (m) have never had any anal play. Have not even touched it in a sexual manner. Fiance has a fantasy to peg me. She has not done this before. So we watch a few porn videos on pegging. 1) This looks very scary to me. Is there not a beginners guide somewhere? How does one start out slowly? 2) Is this generally a male or female fantasy? The videos do show the females having a good time, but, the males seem more into it. Are there other girls who want to do it like my gf where the males may be reluctant? How did you deal with this? Any tips Submitted January 26, 2020 at 11:59PM I (m) have never had any anal play. Have not even touched it in a sexual manner. Fiance has a fantasy to peg me. She has not done this before.So we watch a few porn videos on pegging.1) This looks very scary to me. Is there not a beginners guide somewhere? How does one start out slowly?2) Is this generally a male or female fantasy? The videos do show the females having a good time, but, the males seem mor...