I don't want him to get the idea that me not needing an orgasm, means that I don't want a long sex session with lots of foreplay. I want pleasure...how do I make my feelings clear? Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:45PM I don't want him to get the idea that me not needing an orgasm, means that I don't want a long sex session with lots of foreplay. I want pleasure...how do I make my feelings clear?

So here goes a second try to my first post. Apparently my first one seemed like I was trolling and fake. I was married to my ex wife for some of 20yrs. She treated me like total shit. Wouldn’t fuck or suck me. One day I had just about had enough and started scrolling on Craigslist personal ads, (this was like 6yrs ago) I was looking for hookups and the women all seemed like hookers always wanting “roses” for services. In my curiosity I came across a few pages with guys. Never being into this before I checked it out. After chatting with a few guys and jerking off to cams and pics I finally figured I wanted something a little more, so I posted an ad. I met this guy and we met at a shack of a hotel not too far from Chicago . First time we figured it was just a meet and greet, 2 guys hanging out having a few drinks, and as soon as I walked in we both got naked and rubbing out dicks together. After a few drinks he was sucking me and off me to him, after a shower quick shower together we we...

i recently got dumped by my boyfriend - who was my first. we were each other’s firsts and he made me feel really beautiful even if i always believed i was fat and ugly. i’m still in heartbreak but honestly? i think some fun can help me with that. i’ve been a sexual person and my breakup shut that off because i always thought my ex would be the only one who’d ever love me emotionally and sexually. i got tinder and matched with a lot of people. the pictures i used were both recent and not recent - i edited a little bit to touch up (like acne or bad makeup). i was so surprised to have people find me cute. right now im talking with this guy who wants me to come over to his place and hookup. i was honest with him and i told him i have no experience with casual sex and he said he’d be willing to meet with me beforehand to get more comfortable. what should i do? im sexually inexperienced bc my ex and i were long distance. im not used to having sex with someone who isn’t patient or is figu...

I have a four bedroom house in a Surburb on the outskirts of London and I let this woman rent a room in my house in exchange for sex and general tidying and cooking my dinners etc. I previously had two women renting a room in exchange for sex and just general housework and cooking etc but the other woman managed to scrape up enough cash to put a deposit on a flat and she left on her own accord and I let her go freely, so why is everyone saying what I'm doing is wrong and a form of slavery and rape if they aren't forced to do anything and are free to go whenever they please? I'm not a charity why should I give away my rooms without receiving anything in return? Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:49PM I have a four bedroom house in a Surburb on the outskirts of London and I let this woman rent a room in my house in exchange for sex and general tidying and cooking my dinners etc. I previously had two women renting a room in exchange for sex and just general housework and ...

Things with this guy I’ve been seeing have been heating up faster than I initially planned. But idk if he thinks I’m a tease for stopping us right before having sex. Also is a tease considered a BAD thing? Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:52PM Things with this guy I’ve been seeing have been heating up faster than I initially planned. But idk if he thinks I’m a tease for stopping us right before having sex. Also is a tease considered a BAD thing?

I was jacking off 2 days ago and got a pain near my shaft. I found this normal since it usually goes away eventually. However 2 days have passed and it's still there. What could it be (ik its not an std) Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:57PM I was jacking off 2 days ago and got a pain near my shaft. I found this normal since it usually goes away eventually. However 2 days have passed and it's still there. What could it be (ik its not an std)

Out of the four guys I’ve (19F) been with only two most recent ones have wanted to eat me out. The first two guys I was with before didn’t want to eat me out, one because he didn’t like it, the other because he thought it was gross and too submissive. The latter guy was my most recent ex and he kind of stunted my sexual progression. He wouldn’t touch me and was very rough and demeaning in the bedroom. I grew a bit self conscious of my body and am now self conscious when the receiving pleasure. These two guys I’ve been with most recently have enjoyed performing oral in the past and want to do so on me. One of them being particularly really good at it. That’s the issue too is that I really like it and I actively want to enjoy and receive pleasure from my partner. The issue is that I tend to tense up when receiving pleasure and the focus is on me. It’s so foreign to me after the last guy I was with that I always feel rushed and can’t truly relax. What I’m wondering is how to get over ...