This is my first post, pls be kind I posted this on /r/teenagers and they said to post it here as well Me (M 18) and my girlfriend (18) had sex for the first time and it was great for the most part. But, I never got to finish, she was able to and said she loved it, I enjoyed it but feel a bit incomplete. I’m not sure what to do here and how to continue. If anybody could help it would be greatly appreciated. Submitted September 15, 2019 at 11:34PM This is my first post, pls be kind I posted this on /r/teenagers and they said to post it here as wellMe (M 18) and my girlfriend (18) had sex for the first time and it was great for the most part. But, I never got to finish, she was able to and said she loved it, I enjoyed it but feel a bit incomplete. I’m not sure what to do here and how to continue. If anybody could help it would be greatly appreciated.

So this happened today. Me (18m) and my girlfriend (18f) were having sex and I just started laughing for no reason at all. She probably thinks that its because of her but I assured her that it wasnt and I have no idea why I was laughing. This put a halt to things and I was super ashamed and embarrassed. I told her how embarassed I was and she kept telling me to get over it. Now every time we have sex im going to think about this and im scared its going to happen again. Is this normal? Submitted September 15, 2019 at 11:44PM So this happened today. Me (18m) and my girlfriend (18f) were having sex and I just started laughing for no reason at all. She probably thinks that its because of her but I assured her that it wasnt and I have no idea why I was laughing. This put a halt to things and I was super ashamed and embarrassed. I told her how embarassed I was and she kept telling me to get over it. Now every time we have sex im going to think about this and im scared its going to hap...

I'm (20F) seeing a gyno this week to get more clarity, but wanted to see if anyone on here has experienced anything similar before. In the past 2 months I've been having sex more frequently with different partners (previously was very infrequently, but I haven't been a virgin for quite a few yrs now). First encounter - A couple days before my period, started bleeding heavily during sex, clots and all (yikes). Bleeding lasted for about 4 days after, felt like a normal period with a heavy beginning. I assumed it was induced by sex, which I've read can happen. Second & third encounter - A week after period and everything was fine. No bleeding during or after. Fourth encounter - Two weeks before next estimated period, started bleeding during sex, clots and all again! It seems like the bleeding has slowed down, don't know if it feels like a full blown period yet... (This just happened recently and is the cause for my concern) I'm a bit traumatized cause now...

So I usually have a pretty average stamina I would feel, but for my past 3 encounters I was never able to finish. I kept it up the whole time and play was very involved/stimulating but I would go until the two of us just tired out and decided to call it a night, usually between 2 and 3 hours in. Tried many positions and acts and i stay pretty turned on but never any closure. I don't have any trouble when I'm alone but this is kinda baffling me. Any suggestions? Submitted September 15, 2019 at 11:57PM So I usually have a pretty average stamina I would feel, but for my past 3 encounters I was never able to finish. I kept it up the whole time and play was very involved/stimulating but I would go until the two of us just tired out and decided to call it a night, usually between 2 and 3 hours in. Tried many positions and acts and i stay pretty turned on but never any closure. I don't have any trouble when I'm alone but this is kinda baffling me. Any suggestions?

I don't get it September 16, 2019 at 12:11AM

How are you are you will never meet 'the one'? I mean, isn't it just possible you have a very high standard? You're hetersexual right? Why don't you start dating people of your same gender? How can you know that you won't meet "the one"? Maybe you just have very high standards when it comes to people your same gender. September 16, 2019 at 12:09AM

You just kind of know. There's something you can't really put into words, like an inherent incompatibility or disinterest. I can relate to that completely. That's a good description. I'm an aromantic asexual and it's like this active feeling of "No thank you" whenever I look at anyone. Friends, sure. Anything more - nope. September 16, 2019 at 12:07AM