I'm not generally repulsed unless I'm involved, but when it's people I know talking explicitly about sex, I'm very much repulsed, too. It's really irritating, because most people aren't bothered, and I don't want to seem bothered, but ew. July 15, 2019 at 12:26AM

This may feel like some no duh stuff, but this is DOT, so maybe someone needs to hear this. ​ After thinking about some issues a member of this group has repeatedly brought up and hearing about the Bagel Boss incident, I realized something that should have been pretty obvious from the start. ​ For anyone dealing with an issue, usually but not limited to physical, that makes them feel like they're less desirable you have a very simple (though not easy) task in front of you. ​ Let's call the issue X. Your mission is that whomever is looking at your profile, meeting you for the first time, or on a first date with you, they will not leave that encounter defining you by X. You need to give them at least 2 or 3 positive things about yourself that if they think of you, or describe you to someone else, they're going to bring those positive traits/aspects up even before X enters their mind. If you fail to do this it's entirely on you that they define you as X because that...

I really like her and she’s said she likes me multiple times but I don’t want to lose her to another guy that might come up in that time before she turns 18 Submitted July 14, 2019 at 11:54PM I really like her and she’s said she likes me multiple times but I don’t want to lose her to another guy that might come up in that time before she turns 18

Ok so Friday I got a little wine drunk and ended up finding my ex bf from middle school on fb. (We are 31) he added me right away and we got to catching up. Both of us are single currently but in different states (not super far away). Well everything was going great but I haven’t heard from him since... we do have history as our families have know each other since we were little bit haven’t really seen them since high school maybe? So idk he seemed excited to catch up as was I so now I’m over thinking... damn wine!! Submitted July 14, 2019 at 11:54PM Ok so Friday I got a little wine drunk and ended up finding my ex bf from middle school on fb. (We are 31) he added me right away and we got to catching up. Both of us are single currently but in different states (not super far away). Well everything was going great but I haven’t heard from him since... we do have history as our families have know each other since we were little bit haven’t really seen them since high school maybe? ...

From my experience people usually turn up being just plain a plain no or being rude when turning someone down. You don’t have to say yes but be kind and thoughtful of how they’re felling. Submitted July 15, 2019 at 12:03AM From my experience people usually turn up being just plain a plain no or being rude when turning someone down. You don’t have to say yes but be kind and thoughtful of how they’re felling.

She doesn’t really have fenale friends. Most guys she interacts with on the regular are saved in her phone as nicknames. To be fair, her parents and her boss, who’s gay, are also saved as nicknames. Her mother and brother are super Nosey and Messy. She has given me fingerprint access to her phone, and my her phone pin. Should I be concerned that the nicknames thing is a big red flag? Or just a quirk? Other than this, I don’t feel she exhibits fuckgirl behavior but it does have me concerned. Submitted July 15, 2019 at 12:06AM She doesn’t really have fenale friends. Most guys she interacts with on the regular are saved in her phone as nicknames. To be fair, her parents and her boss, who’s gay, are also saved as nicknames. Her mother and brother are super Nosey and Messy. She has given me fingerprint access to her phone, and my her phone pin.Should I be concerned that the nicknames thing is a big red flag? Or just a quirk?Other than this, I don’t feel she exhibits fuckgirl behavi...

Here’s a quick way I found to cure dating anxiety and help with confidence building. It’s fun, simple and easy. Hope you develop a new perspective and get many opportunities! Submitted July 15, 2019 at 12:20AM Here’s a quick way I found to cure dating anxiety and help with confidence building. It’s fun, simple and easy. Hope you develop a new perspective and get many opportunities!